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does anybody have experience in this matter? i got married believing (foolishly might i add) that i would never have to do this. so i am completely new to this. i have got morals and standards and i don't want to move on untll i have gotten a divorce. the person i'm divorcing is irratic at best and the best i can hope for is that she won't make too much of a fuss. can i do this without even having to see her again? or do ya think she is going to drag me through hell? well thanks in advance for any advice anyone gives me.
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Posted by zypvashna on 2008-04-21 13:51:44 | Rating: | Views: 133
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As long as there aren't children involved,you wouldn't have to see her. The only actions you can control are your own. Hopefully she just wants to move on as well without raking you through the coals. Divorce does have the tendency to bring out the worst in people. I wish you luck:)
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Posted by pitapie50
on 2008-04-21 13:59:13
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there are no kids involved and she is now trying to say i owe her money but almost the whole marriage i was a stay at home dad and she worked man you are right it does bring out the worst in people i just wanna put her behind me well thanks for now.
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Posted by zypvashna
on 2008-04-21 19:36:06
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Do you own any property together? Either way, she still would have to see her. The court will set up a payment plan for whomever owes something. This means that niether you or her will see each other.I think that you may need to get a lawyer and let the lawyer deal with what ever allegations your soon to be ex is trying to say. I have to agree with Pitspie50 divorce tends to bring out the worst in people. I wish you peace through this jounrney.
One Love
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Posted by Nubian
on 2008-04-22 12:12:51
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oh she is just trying to milk some money out of me cuz she is not responsible with the money she gets. we don't have anything together she never bought me anything all i literally have is the clothes on my back and she isn't taking them! its just one more controlling power struggle for her she is just mad that i got away from her abuse and am not in her control anymore the law is on my side and she knows it. oh well its sad that she just can't let me go! she started it and shouldn't be mad that i'm ending it peace all!
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Posted by zypvashna
on 2008-04-22 12:32:18
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