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I've found that it's not so much about "who" but more about "why". If you did it because you loved him and it was something special you shared, don't worry so much. And as far as your questions about the importance or relevance of sex in your future relationships - I will say this: becareful because many people will pretend they are getting close to you just for that. Relationships should never be centered around sex. It might sound cliche but don't ever feel like you're trapped into a situation , you don't have to do something because you feel pressured to. If you tell someone in the future that you aren't ready to, they will respect you. Someone who doesn't respect that isn't worth being with in the first place. My advice is just to keep in mind why you are doing something before you do it. (posted in
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Okay whoever posted that first comment is ridiculous and out of line because no one else has the right to call someone else a bad person, especially one you vaguely know on the internet. I'm all for faithfulness and giving things a chance, but marriage is a partnership in which your husband doesn't seem to be pulling his weight. It was an incredibly selfish thing for him to do on Mother's Day, I myself wouldn't have just let it go at that. But I half think that you should have just left your husband when you were with the other guy. You need someone who isn't going to put themself first all of the time, someone who will give you the attention you deserve, and to take an interest in what you do (not just because he is suddenly suspicious of something). (posted in
Red Flag)
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Actually, I'm going to give a different take on this. I'm agnostic, so I'm not going to give you any lines about God. "HE" exists for some people, and if that helps them, I think that is great. But if you don't lean that way, I will tell you this:
the best way I knew how to deal with things was to rely on myself. For me - no one else could prove that existed, the one thing I knew was real and the one person I knew would be there was ME. I found that I couldn't rely on other people for my happiness, I had to learn how to make myself happy. It took me so long to learn what seems like a simple lesson; don't be upset about the things you can't change.
Support your friend while he grieves for this person, but don't let her actions affect or influence you. I hope you can see that her way is not the way to go about things, and that it is very foolish to take your own life over something like that. There is nothing wrong with telling him you love him, it's important that he knows you're there for him if he needs you. You should not feel guilty in any way that she seems to have taken her own life in some way because of him. Someone who would do that is very unstable and needs help to deal with their problems. It's okay to feel sad for this person that they could not work things out and just gave up, but you should not feel guilty over her actions. You could not have done anything, and someone who would do this obviously needs more than just a person to fix things. I sincerely hope that you would not consider doing what she did if things were to not work out with you and Andy. (posted in
What A Start...)
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