Struggling talk to a girl? Don't know what to say? Find it hard to get a girl to notice you? Want to know a few extra secrets to help you on your way? Well I'm gona try and explain a few things to you that you may find interesting.
Remember, girls are pretty weak minded(just playing:)!
Girls are the same as men realy although they try to make you think they are better. Generally we are all the same, some men think like girls and some girls think like men.
Anyway... 1: Getting her attention. Your in a cafe, you see a nice bird, what do you say? Well I would start by saying hello! Thats pretty basic. Here is a basic starting out conversation: "Hi, I like that top it looks good on you". Smile but not too much and talk quietly and softly but firmly. She will smile and say "Er.. Thank you". SUCCESS!!! It doesn't have to be her top! It could be shoes or skirt or pants or hair. If you get brave maybe just say: "Hi, you have the most amazing eyes, they are the deepest brown ever(brightest blue ever) quite extraordinary!" Hehe, seriously they'll love the fact you had the confidence to say it straight out as long as you mean it!
2: Changing the dirrection of her thoughts. You have her attention, ask her a question. Not a stupid one! Example: "You read alot, don't you?" This will not always be true! She maybe thick as a canal wall! Or "You are a deep thinker arn't you?" "I bet you never rush into things do you?" "Do you like coffee?" "Do you do alot of travelling?" Depends on the girl, you have to weigh her up before you go over! Sometimes these are statements as well as questions. It is good to make the statement because it makes you appear more firm.
3: Making her interested in you. This is the hard part guys, if you are boring they won't want to know. They will think you are a weirdo, and lets face it, you probly are! Talk softly and firmly with a smile! Do you have a book with you? Your in a cafe and you have no book? Ok, run away from this girl and go get a book and start again! It must be an interesting book, with pictures that you bought for you nethew or niece. This will force her mind back to childhood memories and she will love to look at it with all the fairy type pictures! Still no book? Ok then:( Ask a question about her childhood instead not as powerful as the book for sudjestive programing but it will work. "Did you have a pink bike when you were a kid?" Don't worry she'll just think you are Psychic! "My mum used to make the best cakes, I can't get anything like them!" She should tell you a story about making cakes with her mum now! "Did you grow up here?" Easy one realy. So there you go you have started a conversation, but you must take her back to her childhood to make this step work!
4: You have to go. No more direct questions! "I have to go >Insert reason< it was nice talking to you. Is there a way to continue our chat at another time?(this is not a direct question it does not ask for a deffinate answer)" Wait... Has she gave you her number? Or a way of meeting up again? No. Gahh! "I will be here again next week(or tomorrow check your scedual)" "Here have my phone number you can txt or call I'll be around." She should want to take control and offer hers so you can call her. DO NOT ASK DIRECT QUESTIONS! Don't say "Can I take your number?" She will say no! Or dance around the question avoiding it altogether. Ok hopefully she has your number and you don't need to remember anything. Otherwise wait about two to three days before calling and inviting her to a drink or movie, whatever you think best.
5: You might want to ask her Name.
6: Your on your own now, don't put all your eggs in one basket and remember. It takes practise, sudjestive mind control is not easy, but these are simple tricks. So have fun, pick her up and have more fun. Watch out girls they could be anyone!
Ya Dokta:)
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