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Well I know I was complaining about never being in a relationship before. Now, a guy really likes me, and I for some reason can't tell him how I feel. He tells me he likes me. These are his words exactly: "I want to see you because I think you're so fucking adorable and I love everything about you" I didnt know exactly what to say except smile and say thankyou. Then he says that he likes me a lot more than i like him (plus, I really dont think I like him as much as he likes me. i think he is cute and funny but for some reason I just..dont feel the same with him as he does with me), because I dont ever say I like him when he tells me all the time. I dont know why I cant! I guess I feel akward. Maybe it's the way I was raised. My family was never really close (like hugs and kisses all the time). Also, I have a best friend who has been my best friend for about nine years and I dont think we've ever ONCE hugged. We arent akward together or anything..we are really comfortable together..shes like my sister..and i think thats it. I have never hugged my sisters. I guess we just weren't raised to be touchy feely if thats the way you put it.
But now it's really effected me. I feel uncomfortable telling someone I like them (in person).
Also, whenever a guy tries to get close to me I seem to push him away. I take all the negatives and then that is how I see him.
I think I need to stop waiting for that "knight in shining armour" and really just have fun with dating. Right?
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Posted by xbeepbeeplovex on 2008-01-31 21:12:53 | Rating: | Views: 139
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Exactly. Your not going to find your knight in shining armour until you try dating different people with different personalities. That's the only way you can find out what kind of people make you feel happy , and the kind of guy that makes you feel beautiful without him even having to say so. THAT guy will be your knight in shining armour. So go for it, If you like the guy, there should be nothing stopping you. Maybe you don't like him as much as he likes you, but hey, that could change. And as for not being touchy feely, Im sure he'll understand. And once you get comfortable with him, you will want to hug him and cuddle with him, and just be with him. So go out and have fun, dating doesnt have to be complicated. It is what you make it. =]
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Posted by Blake11
on 2008-02-01 00:25:28
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wow that was a great response blake..thanks!
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Posted by xbeepbeeplovex
on 2008-02-01 01:31:54
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