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July 09

Not a good start for July. I thought the shift change would have happened and I didn't take off either the 3rd or the 4th. The kids are not happy with me. I can't blame them, This is the first 4th of July where I will not be with them. She isn't happy because all they are talking about is I'm not going to be there. She tries to tell them that she is going to be there, and they are telling her, "I know but it won't be fun without Dad"... Which of course makes her angry and she starts to yell and get mad..
She has a new thing now, this started 4 days ago.. She will call me at night while I'm at work so the kids can say goodnight to me as always, but now, she will actually argue with the kids while I'm on the phone.. I kid you not my 2 night shifts.. I was on the phone for at least 15 minutes not saying a word, just listening to her and the kids argue about everything that happened after I left the house to come to work.. I can't ask to get off the phone because when I do,I get" what? do you have something better to do?? What do you need to call your girlfriend?..... All I know is that I'm off for 3 weeks and the PA trip is in 2 days....YES the packing has already started for her..Here we go again!!!!
The Pa trip went well, we had a good time. Last minute side trips started off a little rough, but ended well..NYC, Washington DC, then home...
her Mom and Dad were a little upset at first, my wife didn't tell them we were coming to stay with them until the day before. Then as always she stared to complain about the house. Her sister has her own priorities and made it clear that we could stay there, but, she wasn't going to be able to be with us and tha she had a lot to do for her california trip.
Well we made it back, I started on my new shift and SOOO happy that I got to be back at my hall.. She of course hasn't let up about me changing my shift and how she has to rearrange her schedule now...that's okay, my new hall is worth it..besides she only has to change 2 days, I took off the other days that were conflict..i can see it now. H1N1 will be the disease before the year is out with her....Especially since we passed the school that had that big outbreak..It's kind of in the neighborhood that my in-laws live..
*******July 29th---She tied her record, 3 actual "together times".. We haven't had sex 3 times in one year since 2005**************
If it's not one thing,it's another....consignment time is coming up...just somethiing added to all the stress we already have..
Well thats it for July....The same o same o....

Posted by woeisme on 2009-08-28 16:25:24 | Rating: