Posted by
chebtastic1
on 2008-03-23 08:13:24 |
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I know exactly what you mean. Right before me and hubby split, we had our last arguement I guess - well, the last one where we sort of made up. He wanted a hug and he clung to me, but I felt nothing. Even though I knew before then I was gonna leave, it was still a really sad moment for me...the moment I properly realised that after 7 years...I felt nothing for this man anymore. It does hurt.
Incidentally...the song you posted was beautiful - what's it called and who's it by?
Hang in there...all will be okay, one way or another xxx |
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Posted by
GhostOfDerekD0min0
on 2008-03-24 09:58:18 |
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| Camp#1 guy here: if nagging wins out over boredom for you, that's understandable. But you could always take up some other hobby to fill that space - guitar, sudoku, gardening, ship-in-bottle building.... |
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Posted by
prelude2it
on 2008-03-28 10:53:27 |
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| Your wife is trying, you have to give her that. I think if you both could truly try it could work but you would have to make a decision to only want her. When you have a glimpse of what could be it's hard to see what is and make it work. |
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Posted by
whiteknight
on 2008-03-28 11:07:07 |
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Prelude I agree
But see the ing is this, and if you really read, as I know it is hard to do given the volume, the whole story on my blogs of the wife/KP/me, you will see that I gave her every chance in the world to win me back. I even gave up what I wanted, KP was coming, to give her a fair shake.
She blew it and continues to |
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Posted by
Peaches_Cream
on 2008-03-31 14:01:02 |
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| Your marriage is all but over except for you leaving. Your heart isn't in it, it is with another woman. If you wanted to maintain your marriage you would put a bit more distance between the other woman. Not make yourself so accessible to her. This situation is angering me as having had this done to me in a similar situation I have lost respect for you and the other woman even though I don't know you. |
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Posted by
whiteknight
on 2008-03-31 14:25:11 |
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Peaches: I see you have read the entire story as I see your comments on a few posts and I think that I need to respect your opinion as valid. Do I agree? NO
But do I think this is a baseless opinion? No |
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Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-03-31 18:46:26 |
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It is hard what you are going through.
I have been through it..I am still kind of going through it.
Guilt- already tries to steal our lives, when a marriage is all but dead, but for the burying.
It is very hard to live in a marriage, that you wish, was over.
Staying, -some would say was noble.
But lying, to someone about how we truly feel, is worse than any divorce that you may struggle through.
Not only you, but, she, are settling for a loveless marriage.
Or should I say, passionless?
I know you love her, and care deeply for your wife.
I see the anger you have at her, blaming her for your feelings...mad..because you think if she changed, you could finally be all in love with her.
There is nothing she could do, to make you fall in love with her.
There is just different ways, that we love people.
Be honest....it is always the best policy. |
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