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"What is good about your wife?"
Someone the other day asked me that about my wife, and it got me to thinking...yes she does.  First, she is the first woman that ever showed me I could be loved.  And for that I can never thank her enough.  As I said before, she was the first woman I ever got to a 4th date w/ and only the second that got to date 2#....well if you get technical the third but....Anyway she came along and made me the person I am today.  Problem is she got the ball rolling and then the ball rolled away.  Second, she tries...to use a sports reference:  Anyone that watches sports has seen a guy play for a team, do bad, and then change teams and do well...or a quaterback fits one system but not another.  She is a great wife, but I am not sure anymore for me.  Dinner is on the table and great, she can cook and is trying always to find new things.  She is a good mom.  She tolerates most of my quirkiness.  She is not a nag.  She does not ever begrudge me watching sports and does not drag me out to "couples dates" all that oftern(if ever, and I would like to maybe have a few more friends, and wish she had more too, might help).  Bedroom could be better...but many guys think that.  And she takes 1/2 decent care of herself and recently dropped 50 lbs(125 now).  So what is my complaint?  I think a certain woman I know that has a blog on here put it best, we are on two levels......more to come     
Posted by whiteknight on 2007-10-17 04:34:17 | Rating: n/a | Views: 118


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Posted by
Wayne
on 2007-10-17 04:53:27
 
"What is good about your wife?"
in answer I would say your wife must be a hell of a woman to put up with a moron like you..
 
 

Posted by
Wayne
on 2007-10-17 04:53:50
 
"What is good about your wife?"
in answer I would say your wife must be a hell of a woman to put up with a moron like you..
 
 

Posted by
Whitters
on 2007-10-17 05:33:32
 
I think a lot of times we fall in love with someone and through time we change, they may not but we do therefore the relationship changes.
I hope that you're able to get the answers you seek, your wife sounds like a gem.
 
 

Posted by
KP
on 2007-10-17 20:38:03
 
Normally I wouldn't comment on Whiteknight post but I have choosen to break this rule because of the comment posted by Wayne. Firstly He is far from a moron. He is someone who is having trouble in his marriage who has and is trying to rescue his marriage. At the time we first met online he was reaching out for someone to hear him. I happen to be there and I listened. Did we plan for this to go as far as it did. NO not at all. And this is the dellima we find ourselves in.

And secondly I thought this was a place where we could air our thoughts without judgement. With comments like Wayne's it makes me want to reconsider.
 
 

Posted by
Wayne
on 2007-10-18 04:40:53
 
Well I guess you thought wrong KP..all the way around.
 
 

Posted by
JayGilb
on 2007-10-18 08:10:04
 
If you want to air your thoughts without judgement write them down in a diary.

This is a open forum. Accept the criticism along with any praise.
 
 

Posted by
bookgirl
on 2007-10-18 10:48:08
 
I have to agree with Whitters, relationships change over time. When people have been married for any length of time both parties change and that can be an opportunity for interesting things, or unfortunatly for you, you want out because it isn't the same. Nothing stays the same, if it did it would be boring. If you got with KP, over time the same could happen, then what? Time changes everyone. What happened to commitment? Once, a long time ago, people got married for better or worse and they were committed to the relationship. Now a days, it seems, when one or the other isn't getting what he/she wants or needs at any given time they bail. That is the easy way out. What makes a relationship stronger is to stay and work out those kinks and move forward. I have read most everything Wayne has written and he and his wife have been together for over 25 yrs. He would be a good one for advice, I would think. It does sound like you have a great wife, everything looks greener until you get there and it is the same old grass. Think about it.
 
 


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