For months now many of you on here have said that I need to fish or cut bait.
That my wife and I have been driving each other insane and we need to stop, and I agreed and sat and did nothing.
Well that time is sort of over but really...not
Last night she said that maybe I should look into the mediator idea, see if that is something I really am as sold on. It is the least expensive way to do this all.
So I called
My thought being that I want all these better things in my life to happen and if I have something that keeps dragging this down I can't...
So I call and get a very nice woman on the phone that explains how it all works, answers many of my fears, and I am willing to try this.
She sees that maybe NQRW might make this a bit more expensive with her "I guess.." way of thinking, but that the attorney is schooled in this all and is basically going to get her moving off the dime.
And it can all be done for about 1500 a piece.
I can get that money, it will hurt, but I can.
But she can't and when I tell her I called all I get is crying, but she told me to call, and when I tell her the fee she cries more...
So I am where I was...because I can't just pay my 1/2 and let her be billed...I can't afford the whole 3 grand (and remember this is the cheap way short of a way where we file and she will not agree to that as she is sure I will outsmart her!)
So we are where we were, when I woke up late this morning and was asked why was I getting up already and then was told that she did not sleep all nite because I refused to hold her.
I didn't
But frankly I think it sends a weird message
but if it helpd her sleep I will do it....
Then when we talk all she does is cry
because all she wants is me to the old me and I aint that guy no more(sic)!
So I guess I bring back the boat and wait .
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