This is a blog that is really two in one if you look at it as it is a story and a question...maybe even two questions.
So as I know I blogged about before, NQWR(Not Quite Right Wife) was just too tired to make love to me, have sex with me, f--k my brains out on our wedding night.
I can remember looking up at the ceiling of the place I made reservations for that night , as we were not doing the honeymoon for another two weeks and the place were we had the reception was not a hotel and no nice places were near the rfeception.
As I looked at the ceiling I wondered what heck was going on?
We just got married!
I just married this woman and now we have a wedding night and this is our first night as man and wife and I am laying here while she is falling to sleep?
"I am just too tired, we can do it in the morning I guess." was the explination, if you can call it that, I got.
This has bothered me for years! I marry you and you are too tired to have sex on the one night that will never come again?!
So now my wife has decided that if this bugs me that much we need to go back to the place where this happened and re-do the wedding night.
After some thought I have decided that this is a waste of time and money, 500$ worth, for something that is not our wedding night.
I mean yes we could have sex till we both passed ot, although anything close to that would be a new thing in our marriage as our sex life has never been good....but anything is possible.
We could do that, spend all night in mad passion, but it stil is not the wedding night. I know that someone reading this will tell me that maybe it could be the night our marriage restarts and that way be better than a wedding night...well that is possible but it is probable that the wild night will not happen so no such rekindle happens. Hate to be negative but I know my wife.
So here is the questions:
Am I wrong to still feel this ticked and upset and fustrated about this wedding night? Yes it was years ago but we will never have that night again and it is gone forever and she ruined it. I may get another wedding night w/ another woman but not with her.
AND
Am I right that trying to "replace" the wedding night with "Wedding Night Take Two" as I called it the other day is just silly, especially given the cost?
Would love male and female thoughts on this
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