Had a moment last nite that made me feel so much better about me, my life, my future and my love.  Was IMing with KP and she asked if I could talk via the IM server while she listened.  She still is unable to speak after surgery and I heard her have difficulty even couching, so I talked and she typed. When she told me that hearing my voice comforted her I was like the dog in that old 70's cartoon that when you fed him a snack he went up in the air in pure happiness and floated to earth content.                                     And one pint of order, as KP now has her own blog we have made a rule that this will not become he/she said.  We will both keep comments on the other's blog to a minimum.  that is not why we each started this all.  We more than likely will tell storied that are the same facts from different angles, but it will not be on purpose.