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Thanks guys for the words in my prior post
After two conversations I have had this morning with two people I think I will most likely comment and blog a little.
The wife part I may or may not comment on, not sure
But you will still all get my pet peeves and comments on politics and all that.
Should a new chapter in the ongoing story start I will tell you, but for now I think that all involved need time to be quiet and work on things
I will say this, if my last post made all seem perfect in my house it is not.
I just may have a more understanding woman in the bed next to me then I thought.  I am not sure she is what I need, what I want now, but I need to give this a true try and maybe things have worked out that I can do that fully.
I hope you all well, and no I am not going away, but I have a feeling that my status on popular blogs is not long for this place....
Posted by whiteknight on 2008-04-15 09:41:51 | Rating: n/a | Views: 139


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Posted by
luckyluci
on 2008-04-15 11:20:43
 
I wish you all the best my fellow new jersian...peace :)
 
 

Posted by
stillkickin
on 2008-04-15 15:18:55
 
I am not here for the gossip. You have a lot of living to do. tell us about it, or not. Your call. I for one am not surprise at your wife's reaction.
Women have more understanding of life than us guys do, usually. scary
 
 

Posted by
Meredith
on 2008-04-15 15:25:57
 
WK - I am not going to remove your blog from my bookmarks simply because you and KP have decided to part ways. I will visit you almost daily. Promise.
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-15 15:44:42
 
WK - blog for you ... don't worry about the popular posts board.... write what you need to get out, not what you think your readers want to hear.
 
 

Posted by
overthehillandfaraway
on 2008-04-15 17:22:46
 
If you get just one sincere comment, then that's worth more than a hundred hits. Popular posts mean nothing more than a lot of people looking, but not always thinking!
 
 

Posted by
Nubian
on 2008-04-15 18:50:42
 
I remember what you said the first day that you came to visit me...."Blog for you and other people" I took that advice and ran with it. I have always enjoyed reading what you have to say even if it is something that I don't agree with. Blog on my brother....Blog on
 
 

Posted by
whiteknight
on 2008-04-15 19:06:00
 
the popular blogs part was a joke guys
I will continue
 
 

Posted by
circe
on 2008-04-15 20:10:57
 
Good for that. please continue. Your honesty is what brings me to your blog, it is rare.
 
 

Posted by
InsertHere
on 2008-04-15 23:55:24
 
Only you can work out what you're going through. I wish you well in your journey.
 
 

Posted by
angelwings
on 2008-04-16 02:45:05
 
I agree with circe, your honesty is admirable. Blog on, buddy...we'll keep coming back to your posts. Hang in there...the good times will come.
 
 

Posted by
caringadvis
on 2008-04-16 03:33:35
 
Whiteknight,

True story.... A young woman had two men who truly loved her and wanted her for their wife. She loved both men and could not decide on which man to marry. In the end she lost both... I hope in the end you don't lose your wife as well while you are deciding on your feelings. In one of your previous posts you had stated that you had previously blogged with another woman prior to KP during your marriage.... If this is a pattern for you it will surely hurt your chances of ever finding happiness with your wife. You are very lucky to have a wife who really love you, and is willing to forgive your unfaithfulness. You will never have room in your heart for your wife if you keep KP on the throne.... I hope you are able to be a faithful and loving husband to your wife. We all have faults, as does I am sure your wife. However, I must be painfully honest with you. Nothing that you have stated regarding your wife's shortcomings justify your cheating on her or your marriage vows. She really sounds (from your description) to be a wonderful wife, daughter and mother. I hope you are able to move on in life with her and your son without any future relationships to hinder your chances for success. As painful as it is, I hope you can love KP enough to let her go. Her husband and her little innocent children need their wife and mommie. God has spared her life, and given her the wonderful gift of "time". For no other reason but her innocent children, who almost lost their mommie, your relationship should have ended... Her husband who has stood faithfully by her side also deserves to have his wife grow old by his side.
You can not help others without helping yourself... I wish you all future happiness and long life.... We have no promise of tomorrow.... Cherish each and every moment... Give to your wife the same romance you gave to KP. Perhaps you should blog with your wife. Often people have beautiful thoughts deep inside that they can release in written form. You may be surprised at what is inside of your wife that she is unable to express verbally.... Great Romance may await you if you give her a real chance..

Caring Advise
 
 

Posted by
caringadvis
on 2008-04-16 03:34:28
 
WOW, sorry for the novel.(smile) Best Wishes,
Caring Advise
 
 

Posted by
prelude2it
on 2008-04-16 11:26:49
 
I'm glad to see you will continue to blog. I look at your posts almost daily. I wish you the best in getting your relationship back.
 
 

Posted by
circe
on 2008-04-16 13:46:42
 
My husband and I are lovers, since high school, 42 years. We cherish each other, we CHOSE to make it this way. We went through times we hurt each other. When we forgave each other we made another promise. It is to not let love die. Now we kiss like teenagers, , I treat him like the special man he is to me. He KNOWS it. He calls me babygirl, does sweet things for me constantly. We go out holding hands, because we WANT that kind of love. Love bloooms when it is nurtured, dies when it is neglected. We choose this kind of relationship. Now he has leukemia. One thing I can say, I am happy that we are loving to each other,I have no regrets as to how I treat him, I make him as happy as I can, as he does me.
We wring whatever happiness we can find out of every day we have together.
Having the appreciation, affection, intimacy you crave is right there, show her with actions what you need, do this for each other, I will go so far as guarantee results.
 
 


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