Posted by
olp76
on 2007-11-05 09:01:51 |
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| Like I said before, is there anyway you can tell your wife. that you have been talkin' to KP, and she's coming to visit, at least it would be like adultery...?? or is it now?.. |
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Posted by
bookgirl
on 2007-11-05 12:28:37 |
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| Knight, I have posted a few times, but have read all the two of you have posted. I think I said it all in the last post I wrote. You need to settle with you wife what you need to, then you can do what you will with KP or not. But to "taste" KP and leave wouldn't be fair to anyone involved. It isn't like the saying...is it better to have loved and lost or to have never loved at all? Nothing like that at all. You are having an emotional affair with KP and that isn't fair to your wife. You say that you are in counciling with wife, but how can you give it your all if you are in an affair with another woman? Just my opinion, and you are the one who asked for them. I am not trying to be insensative to your feelings, just honest. |
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Posted by
whiteknight
on 2007-11-05 17:33:26 |
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bookgirl, i agree, but i think KP needs support of me now. and as i may also lose her to death i do not have the luxary of time. i never see you as anything but a great source of a logical clear thought that i appreciatre
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Posted by
nikilynn1113
on 2007-11-05 20:55:08 |
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I think I would first amd formost tell the wifey...so she can get on with her life. I know you think she will be a mess and she may even tell you that..and she may well just be one..but that's for her to decide and live with, it's her issue not your's. As far as KP goes...you say how lucky I am that I am living my dream, stop trying to wake up, reading my posts makes you jealous....then go do it!!! Go to her...but leave the wifey behind man. I wish you could see the little quirky faces I make as I type this...lmao...Andy finds them hillarious I think!!! I do hope all the best for you and I still believe in the better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all~
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