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The more I thought about the talk I had w/ my family member the more I felt I needed to vent more.
We buy a car, we buy a house, we buy clothes, we make many big decisions in life.
Why is it that one decision, above all others, is the one you can never say was wrong?
Yes I undertand that it involves religion
Yes I understand it involves another person and that you can not walk into a person's life. say you love them, pledge undieing love and then leave.
I get that
But why is it that no one sees that you can make a mistake and marry the wrong person?
Maybe they were the right person then(as is my case)
Maybe you saw they were wrong but not until it was too late to turn back
Maybe they changed
Maybe you changed
Maybe a million things
But you made a decision, it did not work out, you are willing to pay the price for it not working out...but why is it that you are made to feel a leper for it?
And again kids might be involved and I understand that
All I am saying is that it amazes me that what I hear over and over and over from some people is that I promised I would love her.
Yes I did
I made that promise
I loved her then
I love her now in a sense, even though she does not see it as possible
All I am saying is that I think I am ready to move on.
Why can't I do it without moral overtones?
Tell you what, hand me the letter I will sow it on and make you all happy
There...a big fat A
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Posted by whiteknight on 2008-02-04 15:43:23 | Rating: | Views: 85
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I can totally relate to what you are going through. I married someone I loved but wasn't in love with, with the very best of intentions and to be honest I wanted to leave for years before I actually did. People have tried to make me feel guilty for that.
Like you said...I am human and I made a mistake. I am glad there are no kids involved though.
All that aside, to me it takes two to make a marriage and two to break one so how come I'm the only one getting the blame?
There will always be people who think they're better than you...guess all you can do, is ignore them. Your happiness is paramount. xxx best wishes xxx
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Posted by chebtastic1
on 2008-02-04 17:17:50
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