Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-03-11 15:27:33 |
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Definitely the wife of the man that cheated with other women .... but then again would you always wonder if your husband was gay from the get go? or did you turn him??
Its like you chose an apple over a banana ... different taste, different actions??
Sorry now I'm just being silly!
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Posted by
bjm1
on 2008-03-11 15:48:47 |
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| man if my man was doing another man and then me, crap i would super his nuts to hi dam legg |
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Posted by
circe
on 2008-03-11 16:15:21 |
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| Darn,if he cheated because the man was better looking I would be bummed. |
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Posted by
circe
on 2008-03-11 16:21:49 |
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| actually, I think it is harder emotionally when cheated on with another woman. The question is of course "what does she have...." the answer usually is NOTHING, just different. |
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Posted by
KP
on 2008-03-11 19:19:46 |
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Regardless of whether it was a man or a wowan, shouldn't make one harder than the other. He cheated bottom line. The lies are still the same, the marriage vows have still been broken.
Having had some experience with this. Dumpped by a guy who wanted another guy in the relationship. Then to say if I don't we are over and then to find out that it has been happening anyway. It still hurts just the same.
And then flip the coin over, yes I have dumped a guy because he cheated on me with another women. Pain was just as intense then too.
The thing that you do, do is start to question youself. You start thinking what did I do wrong, Why can't I keep someone interested. When in actually fact it wasn't you it was them.
But we see the public image of these women standing there besides their husbands, but what is trully going on behind close doors is another thing. Me personaly I would let them go out there on their own to hang, they made the mistake and they got caught. Why should the wifes have to be there, they are most likely feeling like crap and ashamed. |
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Posted by
shemelts
on 2008-03-12 10:08:18 |
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Most wives in relationships that are long lasting realize that this is not about their relationship at all. It is about sex. Something different, something new and exciting. It doesn't mean they don't love their wives and their children, they just feel they are missing out on something. Because it is available and they could possibly get away with it, they go for it. Not realizing how the house of cards will fall when all is revealed. I don't think it matters whether it is a man or a woman.
I would forgive my husband. He is only human and everybody makes bad choices and regretful decisions. 25 years of marriage and 2 children later, I would definitely stand by him, and work with him to see that his needs were met emotionally and physically. Call me crazy..I don't mind. Just my two cents. |
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Posted by
lastblastkl
on 2008-03-12 20:37:07 |
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| i agree with kp. either way it hurts like crap. the thing with us is it's private. i cannot imagine going through this in the public eye. how alwful for them and to stand there beside "their man", would be just total humiliating. shame and pain shouldn't be for the public, as such (here it is a choice to tell or not tell). i cannot even go there in my mind what these women have had to endure at the hands of their spouses. |
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Posted by
OKOFCOURSE
on 2008-03-30 09:52:13 |
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Hey,
"EasyToSay", I think you could have used the tried and true saying of apples and oranges and kept bananas out of this. JUST KIDDING!
I think the guy cheating with guy, no wait the guy shutting down some establishments as evil while using others. Wait this is just too close to call.
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Posted by
OKOFCOURSE
on 2008-03-30 09:57:26 |
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Sorry,
I forgot and just read again that this was only for the ladies. Oops! I take back what I said.
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