Thoughts.com Blogs - If you can't stand the heat....

I really was hoping that one of these posts could wait a bit
I sure as hell did not want to go back to back with one of these posts where the post is about blogging
But I need to because my lady needs to be defended I think, she did not ask but.....

If you do not want to hear the negative. why post?

Someone asked that in KP's blog. And in a blog that she really poured her heart out in....
I have read blogs on here by people I disagrre with deeply. I think they are going in the wrong direction.
They are maybe even mentally ill in the case of one person I read a few months back.
I have read blogs by people I thought were out and out attention seekers that were lieing about some really deeply emotional issues just to play on the heart strings of the readers.
One woman on here I and a few others are convinced lied about being pregnant!
Some on here wallow in misery and post again and again and again about things to the point where I stop reading because it is just a lil too much already!
But I never saw any reason to say they should stop blogging, or asked why.
People need outlets. I started my blog, told KP about it and she decided she could use it too as a way to do many things. It was a way to get out feelings, connect with other, get advice, and have fun. I also get a feeling, she never told me this, it may be a way to journal so her kids can know about her life and loves and all that later on.

As I said a post ago, I never have said I only want praise.
I think in my months on thoughts.com I deleted one comment due to content. A few others were spam and that is not counted. And I have only once that I remember told some one to go away and stop reading me if you do not like it. I think KP has a similar record.
We understand that what we are doing is not your average way of being. But I think if you look in this site, you will find many great love stories that somehow included a marriage in the mix, a marriage that had to end. People make mistakes.
I spent an entire post saying that all comments are welcome, good and bad. I respect them both.
However, I think to then read a comment that says that if you do not bad comments then shut up and stop telling the world your buisness makes me feel that I am swimming against a tide.
Bullseye, Easy to Say, Peaches Cream are all people that I know read me and KP and sometimes it hurts. I read the hurt in the comments left on my last post. In many ways I cried a bit that my words are hurting you people, two of which are really good friends now, and one I hope will be as time moves on.
I know in the case of the first two that they see the story, have read it unfold, email me and KP on thoughts and maybe even know some details that others do not....
like I am really Bruce Wayne and I fight crime at night as Batman....shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.....

In a comment one day I told Bullseye I did not think he needed AA. That really took alot of thought and decision because I wondered if maybe I was wrong and if I said that and it was just enough to tip him to not go I would be so heartbroken. But a friend needed to hear an honest opinion that I said was just that, opinion.

I treasure their insights
I treasure all insights
I even have tried to help a few people on here that IM and email me if I think I can give sound advice.

I guess my point is this:
KP and I are willing to take the good with the bad
But that needs to be a two way street and to suggest that if we do not want the bad we need to go away and shut up, or blog about gardening is a bit silly.
Just like we need to see you guys as people, you need to see us as people, people that are flawed and people that use this as a way to do many things.

I know this rambled, but there is a point here somewhere.

And this is the last of this subject for a bit
in fact the last of any subject for a bit, I have a plane to Melebourne to catch

April Fools
Sorry, I could not resist