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Dad's in the media
I was watching TV last nite and I was reminded of something I think is a symptom and a cause, both at the same time, of many problems in the way families are today.
Watch any comedy that has a family: The Simpsons, Two and Half Men(not really a family but there is a dad), According to Jim, etc.
Then watch the ads during TV shows
What do you see?
You see that in today's society men/fathers are seen as dopey bufoons and the mother is the smart one.  
Even a show like King of Queens, the guy is the dope.  Yes she has issues but he is a UPS driver with no education while she works for law firms in a high rise.

But that is just TV and it is supposed to be funny, right?  Don't take it that hard, it is just TV.....

But wait, look at music
In a few months in the US we will have Mothers and Fathers Day, I understand from this cute Aussie I talk to that Fathers Day there is much later in the year, anyway...
Listen to the songs that are out about Mom
I always love love my Mama
M*O*T*H*E*R

etc
Dad has Cats in the Cradle, a song that makes the best dad in the world question himself when he hears it

I think that our kids hear this stuff, see this and see Dad is not as good as Mom.  And as we guys get older we think that this is what we are supposed to be, vs the men that women are looking for.  Even look at the two holidays, what do we do for Mothers Day vs Fathers Day.  
 
Just a thought
If he is still around go hug Dad today

 
     
Posted by whiteknight on 2008-03-11 07:34:49 | Rating: n/a | Views: 60


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Posted by
Hollis
on 2008-03-11 07:59:38
 
I had to chuckle at this blog,only because you are so right on about the shows today....But I guess I look at them and not really put much thought to how goofy the Dad is and that Mom is working her butt off...But unfortunately that is pretty much the way it is...The men are more layed back (and that is not a bad thing) and the Moms do alot of the raising of the Family and keeping the house....So t me, Dad brings home the bacon and Mom just works to get away from the family for awhile to feel useful....As for my family (and this is only my version) I work 2 part time jobs and raise my kids, and take them to all their things and appointments..Yet the huband and I work about the same amount of hours, and yet I bring home about 40,000. less than he does...
But I know he works alot harder at his job than my two jobs and raising the family.....So if he wants to be the laid back part of us, that is okay by me.........Does that make any sense and does it really have any thing to do with your blog????Just my point of view I guess.
 
 

Posted by
lastblastkl
on 2008-03-11 08:28:14
 
i love some of the shows you mentioned. my dad has been gone for many years and he was the glue that held our family together. my mom is very ill and not going to be with us too very much longer. my kids have washed their collective hands of their father. he is cold, cruel and totally indifferent to them and their families. at thanksgiving they finally just told me that they are done with him. what could i say? being a parent is hard work but the rewards are immense. i think dads are great too.
 
 

Posted by
whiteknight
on 2008-03-11 19:26:19
 
Hollis: was more talking about how men are seen in the media
BUT
I guess if they see a great dad at home, that cancels all of that
 
 


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