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Snappy answers to stupid questions on 2008-02-28 21:25:49 |
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Gwatlan:My fathers did that end of things, but more about choices and that stuff.
My father I think has the inability to say the word SEX LOL
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Birds and the Bees on 2008-02-28 19:56:20 |
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Want a laugh:
My mother decided to give me the sex part of THE TALK...my father did more the responsibility and drugs nd drinking part, mainly I think because Mom was a little more comfortable saying the word "sex" than my father is...
any way I am not sure how comfortable mom was either, as the talk consisted of her walking in while I was watching TV in their bedroom...grow up w/ all those brothers and sister and you not only want to get away because they are noisy but because you want to watch something other than kiddie shows at 13 or so...
Any way I was in their room on their bed watching TV sitting at the end...my mother walks in, asks me to turn off the set, which i do...
She looks at me and asks"Do you have any questions about what me and dad do in here?"(...trust me since I have become older I have wanted that chance back, the funny lines I have thought of since...)I said no, she said ok and walked out after saying if I did she was ready to answer...
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Story on the MOMENT OF TRUTH that I posted on on 2008-02-28 15:42:03 |
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Was on the FOX network. From what I hear they are doing one more episode this upcoming week and then reassessing the show. From what I hear the producers really grew a soul and almost did not air the episode that made all this talk, as they saw that the woman may be destroying her life on national TV
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Soul Mate & Relationship on 2008-02-28 14:10:13 |
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I have always thought that some people can buy off the rack, and some need custom made when it comes to marriage. Problem is knowing which one you are. I always saw myself as a custom made, I bought off the rack and.....well I am looking for the receipt now
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Is this microphone on? on 2008-02-28 10:06:26 |
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WE ALL LOVE YOU*BIG HUG*
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Do you guys want to know what sucks? on 2008-02-28 09:42:26 |
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You are 16, he is 47, HE should know better!!!!
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Race And Gender In Politics on 2008-02-27 12:17:32 |
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Well, I will maybe fill in a few facts that are lacking in your analysis:
-Most belived that the first woman or black would come from the right. They were wrong, at least in one case it seems, BUT there have been a few women that the right wing of that party would have elected had age not been an issue. IE Jean Kirpatrick is a great example
I personally would vote for Gen Powell in a second, or Clarence Thomas. Neither will run but they are both respected Republicans.
-When you are in a two party system that only gave either of those groups the vote less than a 100 years ago, it takes time. Only 2 people every four years...when you have 4 or 5 or 10 parties, then you have more chance.
-Do not be stunned if McCain picks a certain woman from Texas as his VP. And unlike Walter Mondale who did his VP pick as a gimmick in a dieing campaign, McCain has a shot. So maybe juuuusssttt maybe the first woman President will be a Republican and if MCCain wins, who knows, maybe the first minority President too in 4 years
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Questions About The American Primaries on 2008-02-27 12:08:54 |
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1) He will never get to be President for one reason. Like anything in this world, we love to build up people to tear them apart and once he is up there as the nominee, let the tearing begin. And I do not mean the right, I mean everyone
2)That is McCain's weakness and it will come out and maybe destroy his ability to win also.
3)She will stay negative to the fine line where it destroys her future. She has a few futures, one as the next Ted Kennedy: a long serving Senator that is the voice of the left that could have been President had tings been different 2) Richard Nixon, Ronald Reagan, John McCain, a loss now but returns to try again one day. Too negative and she kills that
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Men need to be men on 2008-02-26 14:36:30 |
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OK OK I give, maybe I was wrong. It just was that I thought that he could have looked a bit better for little money, but if the overwhelming majority feels I am wrong, I give.
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Define (excess) Baggage ... on 2008-02-26 07:46:15 |
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Ok, I will weigh in:
Many guys see kids as baggage, and they are wrong. Kids are a great addition to life and are only an issue if the ex is going to make life hard by being unrealiable about taking them and that kind of stuff, but if you have PLAN B when you need it(like you two have a great romantic weekend planned and the jerk calls on Friday to say he can't take the kids...have a friend as a back up)
As for emotional. well I get a sense you have moved on from the ex. So that would not be an issue, but some might think it is. They are wrong in your case.
Men have baggage too, the cheerleader that said no, the exwife that left, the woman that said you stunk as a lover...so do not think that you are the only gender that does, and men need to remember that.
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Men need to be men on 2008-02-25 08:01:20 |
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As I said, I am not saying a suit, I just mean a shirt that could have passed as something better.
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LOST: ONE CUP SIZE! OMG on 2008-02-24 09:18:48 |
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Always been a breast man so any loss there is bad
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20 Year Family Feud ... on 2008-02-24 08:40:04 |
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Contact them.
I think 28 years is long enough.
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Saturday night ... no kids ... no nothing on 2008-02-24 08:34:43 |
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You made a good choice. Me time is always great
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"Did everyone on here run to Vegas?" on 2008-02-23 20:17:56 |
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Boy are you a ray of sunshine
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Forget About Africa on 2008-02-23 10:41:55 |
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Well, beyond the human side...and trust me I am a right wing conservative, but even I see that you need to care for the human race. I forget the exact quote but someone once said that the death of any one person diminishes us all.
Beyond that BIG point, there is the practical. You help these people, maybe they do not hate us, and we have less enemies. Yes, we could do EVERYTHING for some facets of this world and they might still blow us up, but a few millions now might save billions, and lives later
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How did the old folks do it? on 2008-02-23 08:21:55 |
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oh forgot one"
6)The older generation in many cases made it look easy in some cases
They made it look like you meet someone,fall in love, marry them, have kids, and the Walt Disney puts the end credits on your life.
They protected us kids, they tried not to argue when we were around, they gave us a "false" picture. Not their fault...
BUT
They gave us a picture that we thought was true, again in trying to protect us, and when we do not live happily ever after we leave
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How did the old folks do it? on 2008-02-23 08:16:03 |
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Yes, open your heart to the idea
As for how the older generations did it, I think it is a few factors:
1)Divorce was SO taboo that they may have stayed thru times that we don't and saw it through to the other side. This may sound like I am saying that they did not quit as easy, but....
2)They stayed thru those times, and resigned themselves. Not me, but many people have become adults only to find out that dad cheated and mom forgave, or dad beat mom, or mom and dad lived in a loveless marriage....
3)Men left, women didn't....back when divorce was more a thing that men did TO their wives. Now both sides do it
4)The educated woman, which is sort of 3#. There are few "little woman at home" wives left
5)Yes, we are more selfish. People do treasure "happiness' above all else.s is good and bad
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Answers To Brain Teasers on 2008-02-22 15:13:22 |
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I had 5...there is a great one of these at a place out in South Dakota called President's Park. They offer you your admission back if you can answer them all correctly and I had all but 2 of the 10. The two I missed were: Who was Clinton VP for? and Three Presidents died on July 4th, name them? Will post answers another day and no neither is a trick
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The "break up cure" on 2008-02-22 10:50:47 |
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Shelter by Corrosion of Conformity,
3 Libras by A Perfect circle,
Why by Avril Levigne,
River in the Rain off the Big River Soundtrack,
Stay by Coal,
Mano de Mono by Corrosion of Conforminty,
Satalite by Dave Matthews Band,
Love of a Lifetime by Firehouse,
I will come to you by Hanson,
Your body is a wonderland by john mayer,
Crazy by KC and JOJO,
Bleeding me by Metallica,
Nothing Else Matters by metallica, Smile sung by Judy Garland,
Pretty Baby by Venessa Carilton,
Worlds Apart from Big River Soundtrack.....
I sound really old here, but I have not heard one of these somgs,,,LOL
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The "break up cure" on 2008-02-22 10:44:28 |
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Whi made this about wrong and right??? Everyone breaks up, and recovers their own way, that is why I asked the question
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The "break up cure" on 2008-02-22 08:17:07 |
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She will email me the list and I will post it here when she does. She seemed honored anyone would be intrested
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She/he is not my type....a question on 2008-02-22 08:15:47 |
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eeerm: I agree. Except in the past they were that type, the type you like, now Playboy seems to have gone off on a weird track.
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Foty - Miss 8 throws one in! on 2008-02-21 15:55:27 |
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Ok, be honest....there is a part of you deep iside, or maybe not that deep, that went YESSSSSS! when you heard this!!! be honest.
Yes she should be respectful but if I have this right, he asked for it!
Forget what he did in general, I rememeber you said he treats her like a 4 year old and nothing makes an 8 yr old girl madder
And if you did not say it, I did.\
I know that one day(soon please) I will be the OTHER MAN that mommy married to two children that are below 10 years old and it would break my heart if they hate me, but I get a feeling that the way I will handle it, the way KP is handling it vs the way FOTY and Joanna are doing it are miles apart.
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She/he is not my type....a question on 2008-02-21 14:44:33 |
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Ok, I know I am going to get killed on this, but here goes:
Remember, I said that it is a type of women (or for ladies man) that you know is objectively attractive, but that does nothing for you.
I have never found African American woman to be my type. Name any one of them, and while I see a lovely woman that men drool over, they do nothing for me. Hispanic women also. I know I am going to hear cries of prjudice, but it is not that at all, they just do not push the buttons in me that says WOW
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"Did everyone on here run to Vegas?" on 2008-02-20 11:35:51 |
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zypvashna: I and everyone here that is not happy envies you. I am never the type to be driving by a church, see a wedding and yell STOP!TURN BACK!..I love love and love when it works. Congrata
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The Shoot out..(long .. sorry) on 2008-02-20 07:23:47 |
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I am happy that the kids see this from your end. Now what you need to do is make sure you tell them not to take sides, they have and they will, but still say it...because you can always say you did,,if if you do not mean it at all...
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"Did everyone on here run to Vegas?" on 2008-02-20 07:12:20 |
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Hijack away...it is always good to hear points of view
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"Did everyone on here run to Vegas?" on 2008-02-19 11:15:06 |
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I do talk to real people everyday. And when the computer is off, which is alot, I am perfectly happy.
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Where I Belong on 2008-02-19 08:04:47 |
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WOW
I am speechless
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I knew this would happen!!!!! on 2008-02-18 18:12:38 |
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was a joke based on a wacko post I saw
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I WILL SURVIVE on 2008-02-17 17:06:42 |
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Again I read a blog where I feel for the wife, I am sorry...yet I am a cheating husband. I am sorry that it happened to you so much and it is hurting you so bad.
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Confidence is sexy to men on 2008-02-17 09:59:40 |
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Yes but shy is not the opposite of confident. Woman love a man that is strong and confident, but I think that is a given...thing is that man woman think men are SOLELY turned on by the damsel in distress and not a woman that may have been strong enough to never have been tied to the tracks in the first place
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Cursed Home, Cursed House, Cursed Court on 2008-02-17 09:50:01 |
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Cue the Twilight Zone music
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Dreaded feeling was right on the money! on 2008-02-15 20:26:54 |
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And I am telling yo to buckle in, I am getting a feeling that he is a father again, like you fear.
Don't let this bastard get you down
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Once scum always scum on 2008-02-15 12:07:09 |
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Meant on TV
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How Long is Too Long? On this our Day of Love on 2008-02-15 07:50:31 |
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You and I have the same situation in many ways. On paper my wife is great, she loves me...but I am no longer sure I love her. I care for her, but not sure love. And as for the old "grass is always greener" nonsense...sometimes penumbra it is!!! Drive down a street in a nice suburb, some have healthy green thick cut grass and some do not.
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When to trust again on 2008-02-15 07:10:49 |
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Love will come to you as you deserve it. You are a great woman
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February 14 Happy Singles Awareness Day! on 2008-02-14 10:20:06 |
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I know this is a blog to HS kids, so I wanted to just add that listen, that girl or guy you "love' may not love you but you will find love one day. I know it seems like the worst thing, especially today, but in a week, a month, a year, you will not even care that Jill or John said they would not go out with you. But that you love them anyway now, is a great act of love. Sorry if I was a lil off topic but thought the kids needed to hear that.
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I'm Back! on 2008-02-14 08:01:46 |
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WELCOME BACK!!!!! KP will be happy, she will have her favorite blog to read when she comes back.
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Untimely on 2008-02-14 07:46:12 |
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And please, and I know others have said this, write again, tell us more, maybe tell us about the man we missed meeting...even if he was a Red Sox fan(Yes I am a fan of THE EVIL EMPIRE)
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KP update and thought on 2008-02-13 13:08:21 |
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Just will add here that talked to her on the 13th and she was fatigued but well. 3 rounds of chemo in a week hit her hard when added to having to carry her family on her back, but she is doing it
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Can America Recover? on 2008-02-13 12:04:29 |
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I KNOW we will make it all the way back and higher for one reason, greed. Someone will figure out a new way to make money and start new buisnesses here. Also, no large buisness will allow this country fall. The British Empire was built on all that old tradition, Lords and Earls and such..it made it unweilding...great part about being a younger country is that we have none of that. Yes we have the rich and powerful, but in 1980 Bill Gates was a schlub in a garage, now he is richer than all those old families, that keeps us flexible
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Now that I've slept on it! on 2008-02-12 21:38:21 |
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AWHHH thanks, keep this up and KP will get jelous when she returns to the blog......but keep it up, I like knowing I have brains
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The life of fear on 2008-02-12 12:24:29 |
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Fear lives!!!!! She called just now and took the easy way
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Someone Give me Strength!!!!!!ARGGHHH on 2008-02-12 09:00:43 |
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Ok. as the a man that is living a version of the other side...different in that:no young kids and still in the same house and married, and wife has no idea about KP...anyway as a man...here is what you do: HE IS A JERK, treat him like one, do not let your emotions ride on a roller coaster w/ his actions. He is a dope, he is an ass, so simply do this...
1)he needs to tell the kids when he is and is not coming on his scheduled days and they will tell you,
2)The wedding is simple, or maybe it is, I get a sense the Mom in law likes you...get her involved. Let her set him straight. You do not need to be a mommy's boy to snap to when mom says something, trust me.
3)You have plans, he pulls the disappearing act, get a sitter and bill him
4)Tape your calls and your talks, sounds severe but he is going to lie, catch him
And be strong, you desreve better than this jerk
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Voting for Obama Is like Voting for Osama on 2008-02-12 07:06:49 |
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Actually the giant conspiracy goes deeper. He is actually JFK reborn but they had a problem in the lab so he came out looking African American. It is all a giant set up! He is being told to pick a hybrid Jewish/Muislum Vice President and then on a trip to Ft Worth...Dallas seems too obvious...they will kill him and the VP will take over and RULE THE WORLD!!!!!!
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Sorry vs shut up on 2008-02-11 17:35:22 |
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Yes, she could become the woman I thought was there and still believe is there. I KNEW it, now I just believe it is
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President Johnny Bravo on 2008-02-11 17:33:46 |
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Well you have a reason, I may think that you fall into the part where you are poring your wishes into the empty unknown vessel BUT maybe not...and where was I unequal in what I said? I said that maybe we need to take a look at him before we crown him messiah
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KP update and thought on 2008-02-11 15:05:11 |
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Just talked to her-she is fine
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Valentines Day x2 on 2008-02-11 14:39:25 |
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That is why on a level, this worked for us both, this waiting...It hurts like hell but it made sure that what we had was real and what we may be leaving is not.
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Valentines Day x2 on 2008-02-11 14:24:52 |
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No I have changed, and alot....but I changed in ways that moved me away from her. And I am not perfect, I know that, and if this ends I will take all the blame, I do not fully deserve it all but will take it. And I am open to loving her
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Seeking Advice on 2008-02-11 09:42:38 |
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This guy may have been kidding, any chance of that and that he took your reaction as a sign of no sense of humor? Again, alot is missed in that you were the only one there, we don't know how he presented it,,,if he was serious he is GONE
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Untimely on 2008-02-11 08:01:53 |
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I have only known two people who did that act, one I know why he did it and even though he saw it as bettering his family's life by not being a burden, it hurts them to this day...the other no one can explain at all and she did it in a very cruel way, using her own daughter's service revolver(the daughter was a police officer). Suicide is never the answer because not only do you miss things but people miss you
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Did we make it worse? on 2008-02-11 07:46:33 |
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Yes, Amy Winehouse...and sure, it is no one elses buisness, but then I do not want to hear the world cry when she dies from doing them. You can't have the cake and eat it too
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Reading the other side on 2008-02-08 19:11:38 |
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*blushes*
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Operation: Capture the Moment--need your input on 2008-02-08 18:15:30 |
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he may be able to kiss honey, but look at these pecs
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Why do we need a lie? on 2008-02-08 17:53:48 |
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Did not say never question, BUT, if the nuts keep running around seeing black helicopters and boogie men everywhere then the VALID questions are ignored. I think I mentioned one incident that may be a valid question in this blog
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Chapter 2 - The new clothes, the new FOTY on 2008-02-08 12:07:51 |
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I have done one 1/8th all that, bought a new suit, a few new ties, and had a picture taken of me in that suit with a nice tie and all by a professional and my family all but thinks I am crazy. No man for any woman should shave all his body hair!!!! You are better w/o this ass
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Operation: Capture the Moment--need your input on 2008-02-08 07:57:23 |
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JUST ANOTHER COMPLETED ASSIGNMENT FOR CEASAR, MATCTCHMAKER STATUE!!!!
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WHY WERE ALL MY BLOGS REMOVED? on 2008-02-08 07:52:41 |
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Guy, you came and sat at a table to play a game of poker. You were more than welcome but you need to play by the rules of the table. If those rules say no links, no links
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Are you anonymous? or do you share on 2008-02-07 08:38:59 |
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I am both. I have no one in my real life that has any idea I do this, well one but he never looked at it...but I guess from comments I get I do have regulars
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Let the nightmare resume! on 2008-02-07 08:36:58 |
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But do keep asking and I will keep answering
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Let the nightmare resume! on 2008-02-07 08:36:34 |
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First you need to stop thinking he can hurt you. He did the worst he can do already. Second, the kids: as bad as this sounds, let them meet the new woman, do not bad mouth her. Why? because if you do he will use that to make you look like bad mommy that does not like daddy's new friend and hates daddy. The nicer you are the less he has to work w/ in that area. Make it like climbing a glass cliff for him . Third:You are a great woman that is loved and will again find a man. Know that and feel that and act that. If you are weak he may sense that weakness and use it against you when things get legal. .... Frankly I feel weird giving this advice in that my wife is you in a sense. However the difference is that I sense her weakness and it makes me less attracted to her, yes, but it does not make me see that I can manipulate her should it become that when KP gets well.
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Ok I confess.. I am no longer totally anonymous on 2008-02-06 09:51:15 |
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I really have loved reading your blob in that it is in a small way the other 1/2 of my marriage, and you are from where my new love is from. I would have emailed you this, but profile is private...maybe read mine and see the situation from what MAY be the other 1/2.
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So-Called Blind Faith on 2008-02-05 07:15:38 |
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AMEN SISTER!!!! I am getting tired myself of the few people that know the entire KP & me story, or as much as any third party could know, telling me I do not know her, it may not last, all this pure BS!!! I think that us loving each other DESPITE never yet meeting is a deeper love. That people doubt me in this area has really started to bug me more than ever and to read your words lets me know I am not alone
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Marriage on 2008-02-04 14:15:27 |
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Ok, I am a lil confused here so i will give two answers:
1)If you are saying he was a perfectly fine guy pre-mom and now is this baby boy in a 20's body, then mom needs to go bye bye.
2)If he is this way from the start and just got worse w/ mom then this is simple. You go to mom and explain that her lil boy needs tough love and you will give it to him and that if mom gets in the way then she can go with him and they can live like a married couple in some pig stye while you find a man. Then simply do your 50 percent. Don't do his!! Do not let mom doe his! You do yours and he will either leave w/ mom, stay and get better or just sit and a corner and rot.
I know it may get rough, but do it.
I hate men like this as they give men a bad name.
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HE rang ME!! Haha.... on 2008-02-04 07:36:17 |
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Be glad he called you then...after the game he was in no mood I am sure...by the way, you said you had no idea what was happening while you watched? They were losing...sorry I am a Giant fan and I could not help myself
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Defining Ourselves & Views on Marriage on 2008-02-03 10:47:48 |
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Well I will answer question 3#: Marriage is great if you find the right woman or man. And men control little in marriage as men do not at all control the exit. How can you control something if the other party has MUCH more power in a major aspect of it?
Women RULE over divorce.
Men are the bad guys there.
Ok what the heck.
Yes normal is overrated as the abnormal make the changes in the world.
And what defines a person is set by the definer: I may see someone as a bad person because they are gay or black, or divorced, or an ex-con or whatever, you may not. What is a noble act to you may be the act of a fool to me.
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The Tainting of Love on 2008-02-03 10:37:47 |
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One of my greatest fears, the fear that I also know KP has for my wife also, is that my wife will be your dad. Waiting for me to come back, crushed that she thought she found love and it left, never letting her life moving on, becoming an old woman long before her time. I so torn...while you must live life for you, you must also sort of live life with the idea that you made choices and that if you want to change those choices you need to put things back in a way that your presence there was not harmful.
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Can the strength of friendship be stronger than lo on 2008-02-03 10:31:18 |
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Friendship is often stronger for this reason, you can get rid of friends easier. Sounds backwards but listen...You are married, you now have to go through a bunch of legal stuff to get this person out of your life so many times you coast thru bad times when if they were easier to get rid of you would. " I stay for the kids"....a friend you choose to keep. I never had to go to a judge or a lawyer to get rid of a friend..friends do not want alimony...friends are there because you want them to stay and they want to stay.
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ever feel like the worst person on the face of the on 2008-02-03 10:09:53 |
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One night does not a bad girlfriend make....
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Why Torture Persists on 2008-02-03 09:06:51 |
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The problem is that WE are in an enlightened age, the western world...the people who we are fighting are not!!! Listen, if we could get the information we need to protect us by saying "pretty please w/ sugar on it" we would. But that seems not to work. I have done alot of reading and it seems that, and do not take this the wrong way as you can see by the fact that I keep reading you that I am not so offended I stop reading/responding, Canada's people seem to be very critical of the US lately. I wonder frankly if the CN Tower was brought down and it collapsed into the former SkyDome full of CFL fans would they feel the same?? I can not remember the exact quote but someone one once said something on the order of the best way to make a liberal an conservative is to mug him.
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Update on blairstreetgirl on 2008-02-03 08:59:56 |
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Thanks for the update KP was worried when she called
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