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Lazy Readers on 2007-11-25 06:42:02 |
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Re you on SSI,Social Security Disability? If you are not look into it. I am saying this as advice, not a put down
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Moments of uncertainty... on 2007-11-25 06:29:47 |
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Distance does make it hard. Trust me I know, but don't give up all will work out
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Apologies To WHITEKNIGHT & HIS KP... on 2007-11-24 15:35:53 |
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Ok, I guess when you are the subject of an entry you need to respond...1)Flattered 2) Puzzled as I maybe from what I can figure out you were hard on her and not me so this is more an apology to her. I never saw you as hard on me 3) From your mouth to the BIG GUYS ears, yes I believe in God but just like calling him the big guy I guess///and on your last comment on this blog..So did I and I think I am not over stepping bounds to say so did KP. My parents are both still alive and I know that they deeply love each other and think the world IS the other person. It does not revolve around them, it is them!!!! And that is great if you still have that after over 40 years. They raised a whole bunch of us kids and I will not be the first to divorce if/when I do and I once told them that I figured out the why this happened...they made it look far far far too easy. They love hard and love deep, Neither of them have the passion that I do for many things...but I think my father never looked at another woman,,well one but she was his days Heather Locklear(see my blog for an explination on that)so there was lil chance and my mother had a crush on rock Hudson,,and we all know that tune...anyway all I am saying is that I wish I found "Happy Ever After" on the first go, I am pretty damm sure I have now. And if you find it girl, grab it, but before you do please do me one favor and make sure that your prince is one. Like I often say, many people can buy love and marriage off the rack, some need that custom made suit/dress. I always thought I was a custom guy and in my wife's defense she is a great lady, but just like many shirts and pants I owned when I was married I have out grown them..funny thing is that after her recent weight loss my wife's wedding dress might be too big. There is a meaningful point there somewhere but I will let others write or think it
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The KP rants/questions/inner musings on 2007-11-22 07:20:47 |
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I do have amny of my own, but I always think that the questions you ask yourself you ask because you know the answer...so you ask it to make it easy. the questions you ask will make me think, maybe make me rethink it all in a way I never did. I am not looking to make this 4 weeks simply a vacation or a break, I have had 2 of them from KP, both health realted, one that was 5 weeks long last Dec/Jan...I have been asked to rethink it all so I want to respect that and do this all the justice it deserves.
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Divorce Part 2 on 2007-11-22 06:27:46 |
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Yes, and she says NOTHING, even I do not even believe THAT!!!! I see my faults loud and clear
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Did I do the right thing? on 2007-11-22 06:06:12 |
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Not sure that if breaks the rules we agreed to but I will add that it will be hard for me, it will hurt not to help you through this, but I think that this will resolve many questions we both have once and for all. I agreed to this to let you get better and let me make sure. I know I am sure, but it is good to take 2 steps back and look at it all. Did you do the right thing? Yes, Did WE do the easy thing ? No It will hurt but what does not kill you makes you stronger...wait I need to put that on a poster.
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OH WOW OH WOW!!!! on 2007-11-21 17:02:42 |
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and like i asked before, can you dream about me as Yours seem to get to come true
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Thoughts on Thoughts.com on 2007-11-21 12:18:09 |
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Lady Godiva, tear down those walls >>>>LOL
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OH WOW OH WOW!!!! on 2007-11-21 11:34:49 |
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Can I know one thing, how does everything that should be bad (a firing) turn so good(him coming faster) for you....I am GREEN in envy
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Divorce on 2007-11-20 16:26:57 |
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Just to add, as I have said earlier to others...criticism is fine on here, I WELCOME it, but informed comments and comments from those that from waht I can see seem to dictated from Olympus are another. J, you are fine, I think you just needed to read more about the hx and your ideas would be valid.....so keep the cards and letters coming people, just do not talk out your ass like some.
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Divorce on 2007-11-20 09:53:11 |
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Sally, I looked at all your comments on all blogs, must be nice to have all the answers
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What a day it has been on 2007-11-20 08:27:23 |
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I did tell you I loved you during all this too.....
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Divorce on 2007-11-20 08:24:41 |
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I think you all are getting this wrong, ands Sally, read the whole blog and I think you will see I have told her, she knows what I want. As for Heather, it was an analogy. Lets try this one and maybe it helps: You have the best hammer ever made, it is the perfect hammer, the hammer every tool kit should not be w/o...but you need to screw in a screw. That hammer, short of just wacking the screw into place, is useless. And yes I am fully aware that people would kill for her, I said as much here in this post and I count 4 times before in my blogs where I said that or something like that. Irony of ironies she and KP's husband might be a great fit. All I am saying is that at this point she is not for me I think...I could be wrong and that is why I keep going to the therapy that I, and I mean I dragged her to it kicking and screaming, that I suggested and insisted on.
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The Step Mom on 2007-11-16 05:53:36 |
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I will tell you as a step father you need to find a good balance. My son has been diagnoised w/ everything under the sun and now in his late teens after ALOT of sleepless nights and alot of blood sweat and tears he is a young man that will make it in the world most likely. I can only tell you that some of this may be anger about what has happened to him in his life. All I can say is this, you and your husband need to act like a team and when you have had enough, he needs to take up the slack and when he has had enough you step in...and when you both have had enough you each push that extra mile. I know that sounds like easier said than done but my wife and I did it for 14 years and it is maybe the one thing we did together that worked
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What is the worst Christmas present you have ever on 2007-11-15 13:47:09 |
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A bike, I can not ride a bike, so it was a waste of a gift
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First ...... on 2007-11-15 13:45:45 |
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Kristy McNichol, which was bad as I later found out that I was not her type...LOL
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End of a life on 2007-11-09 08:11:53 |
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Another idea, and this may not be possible but as I know a man that also fought in Korea that was so proud that this existed he had to see it...any way at all you could get him to DC to see the Korean War Mem? I know it might be a real streatch BUT I know alot of the guys from that war feel they are forgotten and seeing that may make him smile.
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End of a life on 2007-11-08 16:34:12 |
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Well, how about a 2 ideas that may be so different that one might work...or both....You take a Cameras and a camcorder and do a life story of him OR if that is not able to be done based on time and $$$.... or, and this came to me last minute, a show with you all in it in 40's outfits like I am sure he took grandma to
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The Blog Challenge on 2007-11-08 10:41:08 |
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I will agree that many people in life seem to get into a mindset where they have to compete to see who had the worse life...however I also think that blogging for some, me included, is an almost therapy where you can say what you want, throw it off your chest and move on...also you can get a worldwide idea as to what others think. So maybe some people dive FAR into the dark pools of their lives, but as long as that come back up and soar I think it is fine.
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doesnt feel that great on 2007-11-08 05:18:42 |
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I really think you need to decide, pick one and stay. It seems like you like one in that he is affectionate, as long as he backs off like the other one. I think you need to pick a guy and give him the chance.
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Bottled Moments on 2007-11-08 03:42:04 |
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With the writters strike and all,,a new reality series,,NIKKI THE MY SPACE HUNTER...you find him and the son on there...suggestion if you owe this lady $$$ and want to never pay..no My Space page
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100 Random Things About Your's Truly~ on 2007-11-06 06:17:04 |
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sorry I KNOW I do
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100 Random Things About Your's Truly~ on 2007-11-06 05:20:40 |
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This was deep and I think that I respect you for having the courage topost this and say these out loud,,,,,
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Read only if you know the whole story.... on 2007-11-05 17:33:26 |
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bookgirl, i agree, but i think KP needs support of me now. and as i may also lose her to death i do not have the luxary of time. i never see you as anything but a great source of a logical clear thought that i appreciatre
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I wonder if she was right? on 2007-11-04 04:48:26 |
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Nikki, do yourself a favor - STOP WORRYING, the man adores you, you adore him and you will make a great couple, invite me to your 50th wedding anniv dinner if I am alive!!!
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~to pierce or not to pierce~ on 2007-11-03 06:21:17 |
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well.....I say go nipples
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Last nite on 2007-11-01 07:49:34 |
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Not all about me, although we all see the world through our own eyes...I know and agree w/ every word you are saying...it is just she wants me to decide BEFORE I know where she is, I want to wait, see what happens there and then decide. I am not pressing(she might say different but see the first part of this comment), I will wait forever just helping her to see that I was meant for her and her for me(cue the credits to THE GOODBYE GIRL)...I can wait and should she say no, my heart will go in ICU for a long time but I will respect that decision, if it comes today, next week, next year or 2009.
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