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I feel fat on 2007-10-31 11:59:16 |
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You are not fat, all women think they are fat and a great deal of them are not. Listen I am no chubby chaser but a lil meat on a woman is fine. All women need to do themselves a lil favor and go look at Marylin Monroe and see that she was not the twig either yet I would kill as would most men to be with that woman. You are all FAR to citical of yourselves.
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selfish request on 2007-10-31 11:52:30 |
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Done
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a message from Dr. Cryptic on 2007-10-31 09:04:40 |
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Listen, he wants YOU and only you, stop worrying. He has wanted you since high school, and I think you have wanted him. Stop trying to wake up, you get to live this dream
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Updates on 2007-10-30 10:04:30 |
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Dr Criptic, calling Dr Criptic...please give us some idea as to what the heck you are talking about. Is this about things in the blog, did you tell things you should not have?
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Opinions please??? on 2007-10-29 13:52:15 |
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then get going girl and do me a favor,,,give KP a lil of whatever you been having so I can get her here
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Do we have the ability to change someone belief... on 2007-10-29 04:18:44 |
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I will answer and so no we are not, yet.
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Dinner for 2 on 2007-10-28 10:45:56 |
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OK. My answer to my question. My grandfather. I never got to know him as he died when I was 4. I have pictures w/ him and I and I am named after him. There is alot I want to ask him, including the fact that he knew Sinatra as a kid and also that from all I see that when it comes to politics he and I would not agree but there is a sense I have that there is alot of him in me in terms of my way of dealing w/ people and how I have an almost Micheal from the Godfather attitude towards those that cross me. Given whet he did for living I have a sense that he had a similar way to him. When I love I love deeply and fully but make me not trust you and you are Fredo on the boat
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Opinions please??? on 2007-10-28 10:26:14 |
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Will the kid's be an issue in terms of going? Does the ex care? Are any in school? If Not be like those old cartoons and leave so fast you make an outline hole in the wall
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The Burger Meister of 10/31 on 2007-10-26 06:06:59 |
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Was not looking at the ancient ritual but more the childish thing it is now... and yes, there is more to my feelings on this but I have never really got the point of this, even as a kid. Guess I am just Ebenser Boo-ze
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Calling all angels on 2007-10-25 04:22:03 |
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Thanks all who posted to her. She is feeling more hopeful and as I told her, the sun would come out and the depressed feeling would pass. But again for those that posted thanks, I wish more had but I will take what I get
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Sorry on 2007-10-24 08:26:40 |
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Defense: Her husband is not "bad"...I just think in both cases we married people that can not love as deep or show the passion we need. He is not a bad guy. I know what you meant so I am not jumping on you, more a clarification
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Calling all angels on 2007-10-24 05:02:16 |
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come on guys.... 37 views and no comments yet help her out...she is "KP"
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well i am still here and Thinking on 2007-10-22 04:31:54 |
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Can I ask a question that may be WAY out of line but....are you sure you are not depressed? I do not mean blue or sad or down...I mean the clinical disease depression. Maybe see about that first before you tell him anything. Who knows, maybe juuuuusssssttt maybe, he is the right guy for you if you are seeing him through better, more clear eyes. I am not saying he is but (and this is a Seinfeld reference so if you do not watch the show, sorry)you are seeing yor friend's girl kissing your cousin but really when you clear your eyes up it is a meter maid feeding a horse. Just a thought
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Counseling for One ~ Entertainment 4 ALL on 2007-10-20 12:19:52 |
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The man is a fool,,,I would kill to have my wife make noise,,I ask, I plead, i even bribe,,,,,but no,,,THAT IS THE MOMENT!!!!
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A great question for thought.... on 2007-10-20 12:16:37 |
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what is interesting is that the book i found this in was using the question as a way to see if you tend to be more masculine or feminine...having nothing to do w/ gender..and all the women are saying love. Frankly I am not sure. I crave love, as most who read me know, but I also have this image of me in a convertible Porsche, with a job I am on the top of, heading to a mansion as an Ex President of the United States that is admired and adored and wonder if I could do that too. Most likely given the choice I choose love but...
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A great question for thought.... on 2007-10-19 11:26:45 |
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See I think maybe I was unclear, I just do not mean material wealth. You could decide that you want to be thin, run a marathon, have a great job and yes $$$ would be part of it but not the only part.
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Who's the Brightest Crayola in the Box? on 2007-10-19 09:41:20 |
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Forgot the brains and the couples...LOL,,,and that hard as a rock pizza
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Therapy on 2007-10-18 09:09:04 |
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Jay, I am open to any and all critism, in fact I really look for it. My only issue is this...I like to see from whence it comes and I see you have decided that you are the judge of all. I read all your comments, no blog yet as you have none yet, and you seem to have appointed yourself king of all that is right and good. As for your comment, I never said it was all her, in fact the reason I have been going to therapy for myself for a lomg while is I know that I am not perfect,,,irony is that it seems from what I read here you think you may be. So please do me a favor: I am in no mood for a spitting contest so do not respond to this and read another blog. Thanks
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Moses did NOT write the Torah on 2007-10-17 09:19:08 |
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DO US ALL A FAVOR AND TURN THE RECORD OVER. WE HAVE HEARD THIS SONG OVER AND OVER AND OVER FROM YOU. CHANGE THE SUBJECT
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What am I to do? on 2007-10-17 04:17:24 |
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I promised myself that I would not comment on her blog alot, and I have not. But one lil clarification, I was not"angry"-I was disappointed she felt she could not tell me her pain.
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Ok,,,,Question 1# on 2007-10-16 05:09:04 |
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yes...still married
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a Choice has 2 B made, Soon! Help!!! on 2007-10-15 15:14:58 |
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ok cat fight over....the issue is do you go with the guy you like outside or the guy you like inside..or at least I think that is the choice...Boiled in this soup is your need to not hurt Cache, and not turn him further inward. Well Ok, first go with what you know you want..I read your blog and you want Bernie. Little things tell alot, like I know from signs I should have seen in my realtionships. As for Cahce, I have a slightly autistic son,Aspbergers(mispellled, si see what you mean. trust me I think he may be OK if you do this right, and also all you have to do is advertise him to a few gf's and he will be better than fine. Makes $$$, not bad looking and hung,,,a woman will buy that car off the lot fast if they get a recommendation from another woman.
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Define SouLmate on 2007-10-15 10:36:38 |
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Go with bernie, let the other down easy and move on. If you did what you said you did he will see that you are not a bitch and be fine. Why do you need to do this so fast though? why in weeks?
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Question Needs an Answer??? on 2007-10-15 10:30:43 |
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They may not love you either, but think they do. So see them both and see what happens, but don't make any big decisions. Age also plays into this. At certain ages people think they can not live w/o certain things or people, then they get where all that matters is them, and then they slowly find the center. And do not get hung up on the laying down your life for someone part, it's one of those things behind glass that very few people have need to break the glass to get.
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My brothes wedding, my sister in laws day...it was on 2007-10-15 10:24:32 |
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Laughing my ass off
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Discovering Sex on 2007-10-13 05:48:46 |
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PS....(since I know the story)..we are back in childhood
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Seriously...why? on 2007-10-11 10:18:07 |
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I will say this, and just my opinion, if you tell a man how to propose and limit his creativity you will begin the slow killing of all that part of him. Women wonder why they marry a man that will do all the great romantic things he does while they date, then years into a marriage he has stopped...it is because of the type of thinking above. I will agree that doing it at a stadium might be over done, but listen, you guys hopefully get the chance to tell us a few times..and that first time is the one that is the biggie emotionally in some ways..that we will be a dad. We do not restrict that. While it was a TV show, tell me that you did not love the episode of I LOVE LUCY where Ricky is told he will be dad as he sang" We are having a baby. my baby and me"...I would have killed to have my wife do that!!!! And trust me I had great ideas how to ask her, and ended up doing it in such a lame way that was so boring I want to cry thinking of how I wasted that moment.
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The voice on 2007-10-11 09:43:41 |
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Well on some level I agree that if you are that type of guy you are that type of guy. But took me years to get there and there are alot of factors there. As for the unobtainable part, lets just say that if you read on as things unfold about the past you may see that on at least one occasion she became VERY obtainable and I backed away and have regretted it since. that was also very early in this process so was more a timing thing than anything. It is like the old story about that 12 bling men and the elephant, each feeling a different area they think it is different things, because they do not see the whole picture. But yes, be honest and blunt and I will take it all in and use it
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Even in the year 2007, I still don't understand So on 2007-10-11 08:03:51 |
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Or did his"truth" change? If you asked me 11 yrs ago if I would ever cheat I say NEVER...now I have changed, she has not and well.....
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Jumping forward a little in time on 2007-10-11 04:51:38 |
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Ok here is where this gets fun BUT I will not make this into point/counterpoint....in fact I sort of like the fact that you can see her side too
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How to find a man on 2007-10-10 05:04:17 |
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Ok a male will weigh in here. I would love a woman to come after me, but I also love going after women. You also have to understand that sometimes it is nice to not have to open yourself up for one more knife...what do I mean? Ok, whenever I am home and I happen to have left the TV on and one of those daytime talk shows is on I hear constantly about how women wish men were more open to their emotions. Well it is possible that the reason we are not is exactly linked to pursuing. In grade school, high school, college, and after I asked 100's of women out and most said no. To their credit I would say 95 percent of the no's were done nicely and with class. But having to absorb all that rejection makes men have to build walls I think. So it would be nice if every so often we could have the chance to meet a great woman w/o the need to open up and absorb another shot maybe. One great example is a woman I saw on a train I took for months. She was there all summer, and I was 25 and she looked about my age, she was cute as anything, and I wanted to ask her out but never got the nerve till one day I did. She knew I was wanting t ask and had known for months. She was leaving for grad school the next day so we missed out, but that is life. My point is that why should men always need to be the one's that walk away after the no...and trust me ladies, few men that I know will not at least date you once, so that no will probably never happen at the first hello, unless they are married or committed. So yes, take a shot, ask, even us strong men like to be asked.
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The things I do to that man..lmao on 2007-10-09 05:08:56 |
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Can you come to where I live and teach my wife to be like you? LOL
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A poem that proves my point... on 2007-10-09 05:01:54 |
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Ok quickly to both of you, and keep commenting I like that part....She has said do not come for a few reasons that I get...as for my wife: I think she is into me to the degree she can be. I have many theories on her but I think the most telling is I once said she was a beutiful woman and she said no one had ever told her that before, well no man I mean. Listen, I am a guy, we will tell The Hunchback of Notre Dame she is lovely(and yes he was a guy but you know the point)to get sex and my wife is not anywhere near that. I think some of her has shut down a bit
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This probably won't last very long... on 2007-10-06 06:09:22 |
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Do not be inpatient, I was and suffer for it. Was 30, a guy, met a woman, she actually gave me a 3rd date(and I mean that almost literally as she may have benn only my 3rd date), I met her son and,,,,well you can read the rest on my blog but point is that while I am not miserable, I am not happy. Also do me a favor. If you meet a guy that is nice but you feel no spark and while you know he is safe and not creepy, go out with him once or twice and see,,,,something might grow.
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Cricket is the other woman in my relationship! on 2007-10-06 06:03:36 |
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read my blog...she says she does but.....
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Set up - Men cheat on 2007-10-05 12:52:07 |
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Want an answer? Women that do not care enought to ask the question and wonder, who do not see their marriage as something that needs caring for(read my blog) and they slowly push the man away. And yes, there are men that could have the perfect woman FOR THEM at home, that love them, do whatever they desire, cook, clean, and really do anything this man could ask who still cheat and they are asses. I just think that your story has an intresting detail, you met these men on the net...if the man is happy he is not trolling there most of the time. So the amount of happy men that cheat through the net is probably smaller than the amount that cheat after meeting a woman at the office or on a trip or wherever. So it is not all the man's fault or the woman's. And to answer your BIGGER question..I doubt your man cheats because you care enough to ask the question which means you do not neglect him...so while he coud be an ass and still cheat,,,chances are alot less than you think that he does based on your actions.
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Should I even want him back, and will I be okay? on 2007-10-05 12:42:49 |
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Stay away from him as much as legally possible. You are not worth this. you are worth more. And you are right, people who can not have kids are usually the people who would be the best parents, and visa versa....not always as my parents have 7 kids and are great parents but watch Jerry Springer one day, or Maury...then read any national newspaper and look for the ads of people that are infertile BEGGING for a chance to love a child. Makes me cry
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Cricket is the other woman in my relationship! on 2007-10-05 10:36:38 |
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He is a fool, and that is from a man. I may not be into that sport but I love baseball but if I had a wife that made my romantic side bloom again(see my blog for more on that) I would not watch another inning when she anted to talk, and have fun and be fun. Trust me it is him not you and you are not a nerd
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This probably won't last very long... on 2007-10-05 10:31:29 |
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Well, in order...1# It was just a comment and maybe it hit a nerve given the other 2 things so...2# You are single because you are, sounds dumb but trust me, you will meet him and you will know..but do yourself a favor and make sure...3# Listen he will come from where you least expect him, and when he does...just make sure you keep the net wide so the guy can swim in. You will get alot of junk, but after a bit you will find that diamond. That will be 100$ for this session, leave it w/ my sect.
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Frustration, sadness, regret & heartache... on 2007-10-05 10:23:16 |
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Let me add a male voice to this...and defend Niki. I married my wife over 10 years ago and I would have not have done it if I had listened to the voices that told me not to. Problem is that was a lil voice in me, everyone else thought it was a great idea, so I did too. While life can not be "the heart wants what the heart wants" w/o any thought as to other people, sometimes you need to feed your heart or it dies. Niki, I am with you after his reaction. There are good people who are good, loving people that have great hearts that just can not give us the depth of love we need.
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A day in heaven on 2007-10-05 09:36:31 |
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I am glad that in this world a few people get to live their dreams, it is a shame we all can't. I would suggest, and just a suggestion have a conversation where you ask each other what is the one thing that makes the other nervous about all this? A habit he or you have, a friend, your dog(if you have one) It could be minor and if it is great, but jump up and down on the bridge and make sure it is strong as you believe it is before you decalre it the bridge you plan to use forever.
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