Posted by
nikilynn1113
on 2007-10-05 14:09:42 |
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wow...this is awesome. I love that she knows and she cares enough to let you know. I am so sorry for the pain you are feeling. It's really too bad you guys hadn't found one another years ago. I married my husband after seeing many warning sign's, they were large, red and up in my face, I pushed them away and did it anyways. I wish I hadn't..but thats life. I know you want to steal what little time she has left, I know you want to share it and although it is selfish, it is so understandable. Have you thought of going to her? Maybe spending what time she has left with her and her kids? You aren't gonna stay with your wife, or atleast you're not happy with her...maybe you should just walk away. I wish you all the best and I will keep reading!!
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Posted by
Revolvingdoor
on 2007-10-06 16:40:37 |
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| Hello. So I finally read all of your blogs to get the full story. And I don't think the issue of staying with your wife should revolve around having someone else to be with. If you are not happy, you are not happy. Life is too short to be miserable. I think it is ok to be selfish. What is the point of living your life if you do not do things for yourself or things that make you happy? It is definitely possible to be a good person, do good for others, but do good for yourself as well. And by the sounds of your description of your special occasions spent with your wife, no offense (this is harsh but true) she really does not sound like she is that into you either. So why are you together? I spent six years with someone, and the last couple of years I was so miserable. And now we are not together. I am not with anyone. I am alone, but not lonely. The worst feeling ever is to be with someone and feel lonely. Being alone and lonely is justifiable. But how do you justify feeling alone when you aren't alone? Does this make sense? I hope I'm not being too harsh. I think you deserve to be happy. |
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Posted by
whiteknight
on 2007-10-09 05:01:54 |
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| Ok quickly to both of you, and keep commenting I like that part....She has said do not come for a few reasons that I get...as for my wife: I think she is into me to the degree she can be. I have many theories on her but I think the most telling is I once said she was a beutiful woman and she said no one had ever told her that before, well no man I mean. Listen, I am a guy, we will tell The Hunchback of Notre Dame she is lovely(and yes he was a guy but you know the point)to get sex and my wife is not anywhere near that. I think some of her has shut down a bit |
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Posted by
nikilynn1113
on 2007-10-09 10:05:08 |
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| it may be that ur wife shut down, question is, do you wanna open her back up? Do you want that part of her back? |
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Posted by
SecretDanie
on 2008-05-08 16:27:48 |
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I like it.
Has a lot of emotion |
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