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 Unemployed and Sinking Fast
Ok, my first blog! I'll tell you a little about myself, and the situation we're in, how we got here, etc.
I'm 51 years old, been married for 27 great years and have 3 awesome daughters. My background has always been residential construction. I've been a supivisor for years, but have always been a working one, wairning nailbags and gettin it done. I was raised to get the job done no matter what, no excuses, just do it. I've been a very hard worker my whole life, but never got rich from construction, just enough to pay the bills. Fours years ago, I left swinging a hammer and became an inspector for an engineering company. Ten months ago, I was layed off. Not to worry I thought, I've always been able to find work.
 Pretty soon, the days dragged into weeks, the weeks into months. Even days and nights seem to run togather anymore. I couldn't sllep unless I was exhausted, so I started staying up, working on the cpmputer untio 2 in the morning. Otherwise I'd just lay in bed at night worrying. Now, that doesn't even work, I'll go to bed at 2, and just lay there worrying until 4am.
 I used to really be full of spit and fire, I could do anything. Seems now, that's changed. Feels like I can't seem to do anything at all. Resources are tota;;y gone. My wife has a back injury and can't work anymore.
 This is really weird for me, like I said, I used to be able to do anything, the morechallenging, the better. Now, it's just the oppisite, in only 10 months.
 I am trying to start a home business, been working on it for some time. The problem there, is I've run out of time and money. We've gone through everything we have, money wise. I can't pay this months rent even.
 I found some "handyman" type work last week, running a bunch of fences for soomeone. After just two days, I was so run in the gorund, it took 3 more days to recoup from it. ( Not just tired, who cares, I can live with that). It seems my health has gone down hill in the last year, I can't even do the physical labor I used to. Hmm, no other skills either. Guess I set myself up for that one.
Ok, too long for a post, but just to bring you up to date.In my next post, I'll tell you what  happend when I went into town today. ( we live half an hour out of a big city). That was just to bizzare for me, I totally freaked, just being around crowds, that's why I came back to start this post. makes me wonder where this is going to lead. (remember me, full of spit and fire, worked my own business in construction for years, even traveled the world a few times by myself! ).
    Posted by unemployedguy on 2009-11-04 14:41:45 | Rating: | Views: 41
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I've been through a very similar ordeal myself,I can definitely understand...(especially the part about not being able to do the physical stuff like I used to)There's been so many changes in my life,I've written about them in my blogs.

Hang in there!
Posted by  altonwoods  on 2009-11-04 15:20:48 
  
Ok, that's cool, so I'm not the only one losing my mind, lol. I'll check your blogs out. Thanks, you hang in there too !
Posted by  unemployedguy  on 2009-11-04 15:23:54 
  
We're all in a tough game. The worled isn't getting any better. This comes out of the weeds, somewhere.
Posted by  GeorgesBlog  on 2009-11-04 15:30:58 
  
Great story altonwoods, almost a copy of my life. Right now my biggest problem is Faith. I have the Faith to believe Jesus Christ is who He says He is, I have Faith to believe my eternity is secure in Him alone. I guess my issue is having the Faith that He's going to get us through this mess.Sometimes it feels like he's there for us, but as far as the econmoy and work, well, we're on our own there. Pretty stupid thinking I know, but that's how I'm feeling. Guess it's one of those stupid valleys we just can't seem to climb out of.
Hey, thanks for the advice !
Posted by  unemployedguy  on 2009-11-04 15:32:47 
  
This story is becoming more common every day. How does it make you feel when the liberal media lies to us every day that the economy is getting better?
My financial people tell me that there are sectors that are improving, even construction a little. However the Obama destructive forces are in place and eventual hyperinflation and devaluation of the dollar are near.
If you a looking for advice, don't "buy" a sales job on the Internet.

Good luck with your job search
Posted by  GovMisdirection  on 2009-11-04 18:05:03 
  
I agree, where we live, ( outside of Denver),the economy is in no way getting better. Most of my friends have already lost their businesses, along with their tools and equiptment. The housing sales stories they print, how sales are up, what a joke. Those are the sales of the forclosed homes. I read in the news one day, things are looking better, the next day, the same paper says doom and gloom. Just try to keep your head above water right. That's kind of where we are now, been keeping our head barley above water for some time, but now that the resources are gone, it's on to the next step. I figured, if there's no work out there, then craete your own work. Problem with that, even on a shoestring, it still takes money to make money. ( Btw, what is the next step? lol)
Posted by  unemployedguy  on 2009-11-04 18:13:45 
  
Here's a question for everyone !
How much stress, can you take? What would be your breaking point? ( I never thought I had one, never given up in my life).
Posted by  unemployedguy  on 2009-11-04 18:14:58 
  
Here's a question for you, when and if that should happen (finding that point) would you see it as being a "breakdown" or as a "breakthrough"?
Posted by  altonwoods  on 2009-11-06 10:24:01 
  
I really don't see that point being a "breakthrough". I think it's important to know where that point is though, so that you can take action if you feel it coming.
Have a friend, who's been unemployed for 3 months, not elligible for benifits, ( self employed). Guys' a big rough tough plumber kind of guy. He was notified last week that the bank is taking his house. He has a wife and two kids. His wife called this morning, and said they were commiting him into an institution this afternoon. Now, that's serious stress. he's never been in this kind of a possition before, backed into a corner, not knowing what to do. Too much for him to deal with I guess.
Posted by  unemployedguy  on 2009-11-06 16:33:21 
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