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 better to have....oh nonesense!

As an artist, i find that I feel deeply. Too deeply rather, and very quickly. My boyfriend, we broke up over 6 months ago. Every day and night, i think about him. Sometimes, in my mind, I even continue where we left off. I can kiss him, i can tell him I love him so much, i can get mad at him, and he stays the same wonderful person he is. Don't get me wrong, I know i'm living in my own fantasy world, but sometimes it's not that easy to let go. I suppose i should begin by letting you all know how it is he ended things with me: He stopped calling, texting back, or answering my phone calls. After a while, i gave up hope of clearing the air with him and simply hoped for a friendship. Well, last month he wrote me an email. A friend of mine had told him i was in the hospital and i certianly believe he was genuinely concerned. Unfortunately, he got me at a wrong time in my life because my response was a bit hostile. Anyway, when i think of him, sometimes i wish i could take all the memories and simply erase them all.

So I leave you all (whoever dares to read this) with this question:

Is it true, the adage, "Better to have loved, than never to have loved at all?"

    Posted by uncertainty on 2008-03-12 00:44:29 | Rating: | Views: 130
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I couldn't imagine life without love. Everytime you love you grow, and even when you get hurt you learn something.
Posted by  peace_seeker  on 2008-03-12 01:35:34 
  
its better to have loved, as it teaches you life skills
just think, if you had not learned to love, it would be a harder to learn later on in life when you meet someone who you love just as much, if not more than the previous person
Posted by  roxietheroxie  on 2008-03-12 01:45:39 
  
Nope.
For exactly the reasons you state.
You lose love and you wish it had never been there. So maybe it is better to have not loved that person
Posted by  whiteknight  on 2008-03-14 07:53:08 
  
Live, love and feel! It's always better to have loved even if it doesn't work out. The lessons learned help you grow and fine tune what it is you want from a lover. There will be a next time!

Good luck
Posted by  Ellie2008  on 2008-03-21 13:18:13 
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