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 Troy's Thoughts on True Love
What is true Love, is it between a man and a woman? A man and another man? a woman and another woman? Is true love when you make love with someone, is that true love?  I used to think that love was when you did want to be with someone all the time, when you cared for them, and they made you happy all the time, and to fully express your love you make love to them.  This idea of love is portrayed in all the movies Ive ever seen, a hot guy meets a nice girl and they have sex with passion and intimacy, but is that really true love?  I mean is it really love your feeling when you stick your dick in some chick, is that really love? i used to think so, and i believe many other people do as well.  But i believe that true love has nothing at all to do with sex, true love is something so profound that i doubt anyone has ever truly felt true love in its purest form.  I believe true love is not when you care for another, not when you desire to have sex with another, but when you care and love anything and everything with all your heart soul, those who love you, those who hate you, when you love everything, that to me is true love.  And if you do truly love everything and anything, it is impossible for you to ever be sad, to ever be angry, because you love everything, there is no good, there is no bad, all there is is your love for everything just as it is no questions asked.  To me at least true love is understanding, forgiveness, acceptance, and truth.  If you truly loved someone with all your heart and soul, you would be able to live with or without them, you wouldn't be sad about them leaving, you would love them just the same and be happy to have known them, and even be happy to have not known them, if that were the case.  You can fall in love, or you can choose to love, Love is a choice, its not forced, all you have to do is choose.  For those who have hurt you the most you have chosen to hate them, to be angry with them, to feel this negativity towards them, but if you choose to love love them, then you wouldn't feel pain, none at all, because you truly love them no matter what they do.  Its a hard thing to do, to love those who hate you, or to love those who you hate, but its all a choice, and all the religious profits or deities always say the same thing when it come to achieving true happiness: LOVE EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND SOUL AND ETERNAL BLISS AWAITS!!  Going back to the movies, the guys and gals that are in love always seem so happy, but you can see fear in there eyes, fear to lose what they love the most, fear that the other will die or leave them, but the funny thing about a couple in love is that it never seems like true love to me, true they love each other, but do they love themselves?  It always seems to me that the happiest people i meet are not happy because they have a lover, or because they have a love in there life, but they are happy because they love themselves, and they love everything around them, and are thankful for everything they have, even if it might be something bad, they are thankful to have it, they are thankful to exist, they are happy just for the sake of being happy, they accept everything as is and never ever worry, those to me are the people in true love. the love of everything and anything.
    Posted by troy711 on 2009-06-24 07:19:09 | Rating: | Views: 175
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the love of everything and anything. . . . deep, profound but is it realistic??
it would really be a better world if everybody espoused the same belief, but hey we do not live in a vacuum, the society, most of of it atleast, do not think that way.

i would want to believe in your view, in my heart i believe, yet my rational, guided side refuses to.
Posted by  sunscreen  on 2009-06-24 08:23:31 
  
your right, and thats why I believe its not human nature to blame, i believe we truly can love everything and anything, its possible, but it our soceity which says no, its our soceity which says to only care about close freinds and family, Its our soceity which holds us down, and its a shame if you ask me. Sometime i find it hard to believe that the only thing stopping us from acheiving world peace and everlasting love for all, is our own fears and insecurites for one another. My #1 dream more then meeting the girl of my dreams and loving her with everything i have, is for me and everyone else to love anything and everything else, for true world peace and harmony. I have hope of meeting the girl of my dreams, But i dont think i will live long enough to see the day we decide to all love eachother, and at times it makes me cry.
Posted by  troy711  on 2009-06-24 10:48:07 
  
Dude....you hit the point there....give us hopeless romantics more hope through your words.....thanks a lot
Posted by  Reiernesto  on 2009-06-25 04:29:28 
  
I think you're onto something really important in examining the idea of love. Too often we assume we know what we mean by the word, when we really don't. Wikipedia has a good article about what love is, and "The Road Less Travelled" by M. Scott Peck has some really good stuff to say about what love is NOT.
Posted by  headsort  on 2009-06-25 05:25:28 
  
i will have to check into that
Posted by  troy711  on 2009-06-27 00:56:48 
  
beautiful thoughts. i agree with that completely.
Posted by  flag_n_twirls_FP_10  on 2009-06-27 00:38:56 
  
thank you so much :)
Posted by  troy711  on 2009-06-27 00:48:24 
  
I agree with you on most points here. However, it cannot be expected that everyone truly love everything and anything that comes their way. But I do believe that a person should and can love themselves no matter what comes their way. Love isn't about sex at all. And letting the one you truly love go is not an easy task at all. I cannot agree that their is no sadness in their leaving, but I can agree with you that loving them and seeing them happy can make you happier for them. Seeing the person you love smile is amazing...but it still hurts to know that you are not the one they are smiling with.
Posted by  dragoonspirit  on 2009-08-09 13:23:04 
  
that last part in your comment "but it still hurts to know that you are not the one they are smiling with", that is very true.
Posted by  troy711  on 2009-08-09 23:14:34 
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