I titled this it's not about the carwash and the next thing ya know I look down and everything I wrote was about the carwash. I mean literally about  the carwash so I just erased it and started over because it's not about the carwash, it's about what the carwash taught me. WHOA!!!!!! COOL
I just did it again. well at least I recognize it.
Anyway is what the carwash taught me was that when I let go and stop enabling people they will learn how to do things on their own and it will make them feel good about themselves. When I do things for them they dont learn to ever do it on their own. Getting the cars cleaned was not really what the carwash ended up being about, it was about team work, it was about each person having a strength, it was about clear intension, it was about relationships, fun, forgivness, it was about common goals, vision, it was about sharing, it was about completion. it was about life.