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O.K. I have been known to tell people if you are my friend and I love you, you will never get away from me. Well I usually dont let stuff brew. We are all human and anytime you are in realationship with anybody there are going to be bumps in the road. With me I usually take a few days or a few minutes and deal with them straight forward.
Well............ as I have said I realized I was making my world small and that is when it started to become all about me. I had a few friendships that were very important to me and I let them slip thru the cracks, in the years I was retreating into my shell, so I had to, for my heart at least go back to these people and say I love you, I let you out of my life and I want you back. Well no one said it was going to be easy.
I sent a text to a very wonderful friend and have not really talked much in a long time and just said lets get together and talk. Right away she replied and said sure. I actually wanted to sit down and talk to her and her other half that was also a very dear friend of mine. Well I ran into them that very same night, and the conversation was almost happening right there and then we decided no not now, lets just talk when there is not alcohol involved. What a concept, making a special effort to get together is completly different then running into someone and having a alcohol conversation. Actually with clear intension to fix a relationship is a whole new ball game.
Well let me tell you it was uncomforable for sure, 2 of them 1 of me at there house. WHEW my heart was beating really fast, felt like on the outside of my body. And understandably so. I had so much to say and I worried about how to start the conversation and instead I shut up and I just listened. that was the best thing I could have done because then I knew what I was dealing with, DUH the same issues I was, hurt feelings and lack of communication. I realized when I said to them why didnt you come to me, that I was just as guilty, I didnt go to them either.
Well that was all cleared up and today they came by to just hang out and chat. How nice. A couple of lost loves back in my life, we have agreed to this day forward.
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Posted by trevorjohn on 2007-11-03 18:52:16 | Rating: | Views: 111
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Friendship this is important.
For friend grow not on tree.
And this where good this you have write.
I give you five rate for this you have write.
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Posted by Ottehey
on 2007-11-04 09:55:33
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You just encouraged me to call some old friends.
Thank you.
Our loved ones should always matter.
Nice entry.
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Posted by DifficultSoul
on 2007-11-05 21:14:18
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Friendship is the best relationship you could ever have.
Great post. xx
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Posted by bubblydi
on 2007-11-06 02:35:29
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friendship is all about not being selfish! I love friends, what would life be like without friends?
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Posted by trevorjohn
on 2007-11-07 20:08:39
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