incest tube She posed 3 really interesting questions: 1) Why the necessity to surround oneself with those with similar karma? 2) Self-history with victim of incest together with abuse, now emergent pattern inside my child's life as properly.
The truth is, you do not require to surround yourself with people with similar karma. You are attracting those with similar vibrations to your own. When your predominant vibration is considered one of "victimhood", "violation", "damage", "blame" or anything else (positive or negative), this becomes the predominant message you will be sending out into the universe and also the universe absolutely will reflect the parallel back to you. This is inescapable as a result of law of attraction. It is an absolute and you can count on it!
two) Self-history with victim of incest and abuse, now emergent pattern in my child's life as properly. How do we both break free?
This may be the hardest one for you to hear, but in my own experience, there is merely one path to true liberty: You must completely release the illusion of "victimhood" - and in many cases the "survivor" mentality : and drop the "blame cycle" altogether. As long as you will be "blaming" or holding someone past yourself responsible for anything in you life, people can't truly progress. Period of time. You must take comprehensive responsibility for everything inside your current reality.
This is certainly tough to hear and in many cases tougher to do. (Believe me, I know!) But specialists, if you can embrace this message, you will not believe the empowerment together with freedom that lie in front of you! It is like a magic wand that can transform you into some thing you didn't know was possible. Really! (And, by the way, the most powerful thing you may do to help your child here is to demonstrate doing just that!)
3) Is there a transformation of negative karma possible through doing good for others who suffer in the same way?
Again, this may be slightly tough to hear, but very empowering once perfectly embraced: You do not need to "transform" anything damaging. What you need is always to shift your focus faraway from "negative" to "positive".
You are growing, evolving and accomplishing for more. That's why you are here on this planet today. You can call this "transforming" if you like, but it isn't about focusing on something negative until it becomes positive. (In my experience, this is a waste of one's.)
As i said in the original article, " Reliving painful experiences of the past, whether in this lifetime or the last, doesn't help us! " Focus on where you intend to go from here, what you are looking to grow into and give that all of your current energy.
Now, it's fine to help others who "suffer similarly", as you say, if you resonate to be able, but be careful to never align with the "suffering" a part, because that's what you'll attract! It isn't about having to pay a debt or making right an incorrect, it's about growth, growth and forward movement, for you and for us all - for the global consciousness.