Posted by
Theresia_Harvard
on 2008-04-27 05:18:04 |
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| Sweetie, you are right ... it is no fun to sit at home and be a glorified baby sitter. sit your hubby down and explain to him that this is going to work both ways. You need time alone, so he can mind the baby while you go out with friends. And being a father means that there is no more going out alone. Unless u made this baby on your own lol ... which I doubt very much. If you and baby cannot go with, then hey, his bad luck! |
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Posted by
anotherdaze
on 2008-04-27 13:15:41 |
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Both of you made this baby and both of you need breaks! He should know how to take care of the baby while you go do things and if he can't he needs to learn. If he is unwilling then your right you are most likely better off without him. If he is going out alone then you should also not have him telling you that your not allowed. And also you shouldn't be "letting" him play basketball. Both of you have your own brains for a reason. You have to have trust and respect.
Yes people don't like it when you turn the tables on them. You shouldn't have to play headgames either.
Just break it down for him. If you two don't stay together he will have weekends and days that he has to watch his kid. Also while he is playing basketball or going out either give him the option to plan and pay for a sitter so you can have a life too or take turns parenting so both of you can have a life and do things to let off stess. Being a parent doesn't mean you life is compleatly over. You both should be able to get out and destress. A stessful parent isn't good on a baby. They feel it. So good luck and with or without him you do need to find a way for you to have time for yourself! |
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