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| Since when did relationships become casual |
Since when did relationships become casual...I loved you yesterday but today I don't....And if a relationship turns into a marriage how is it somebody can say I meant it but not today....
Relationships should not be taken lightly they are a commitment you bound yourself to. When you enter any type of commitment it reflects whom you are so why would sombody want to reflect they are flighty and not mean what they say?
But then again if you keep running into the same problem then maybe the problem isn't them it could very well be yourself. Even if you are a caring and devoted partner maybe you keep picking the same types of people and therefore end up in the same type of situation.
LOL trip out
Some people don't know how to walk away when they see the red warning flag they think things can change.... But in the begging is when things are supposed to be the easiest so if your hitting bumps in the road from the get go then you know you need to walk away before you make that solid commitment
Some like to candy coat eveything they push everything aside and say it'll go away if I ignore it. Nope it 98% of the time makes it even worse yet they know this and continue doing it anyway.
Dating is meant to weed things out - not just for sex. People need to date more than one, yes it can get overwhelming but that's the beauty of it. It turns you inside out and upside down and when you find yourself always thinking of the same person then you know that it's time to maybe make that commitment and if you can not commit then don't, there is no contract when your dating.
A marriage is the ultimate way to say I am so very deeply in love with you. A marriage is when you know with out a doubt that you can not be with out the other. It's not always easy but that doesn't mean you just say o well I tried and get a divorce. No you are supposed to stick it out through thick and thin that's why the vows are there. For better for worse for richer for poorer in sickness and in health till death do us part.
There are always circumstances when you do need to walk away cheating abuse neglect that sort of thing but I'm talking about every day normal reasons.
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