After 11 years of marriage my wife leaves me.  I guess I should say more.  In January, my wife asked me to move out for a while to give her "space".  I started bloging here at thoughts.com with a day to day update on how I was doing. My wife thought that was a good idea and started bloging as well, low and behold it was the same site and she read all my posts, I stopped posting and by March she moved out.  Having my heart ripped out and my happy life forever altered has been hard and I thought about quiting thoughts.com but I have always liked it and the people on here.  Divorce is right around corner and I hope I can make it without losing to much of myself.