Thoughts.com Blogs - We complain but......

I find that most people have the one same denominator. We complain but do nothing about what we complain about.
I'm no different but I'm getting better at it.
Now days I take some kind of action.
I write, phone, go see, whatever it takes.
Does it ever do any good ? Not really but I do feel if more people would put as much time and energy into some sort of action as they do about whining and bitching then perhaps some sort of change will take place.
So why do it if nothing changes ?
Well for one thing, I get to feel better.
I release the stress that the issue is causing me. I get to vent at someone about whatever is " frosting my flakes ".
People spend a whole lifetime complaining about things that could be changed if they'd only make some effort.
Now days when some " whinnier " starts I listen and then ask " other then complaining, what have you done about it ? " If they say nothing, I tell them that they are in fact wasting my time listening to them.
Boy that sure upsets them but I really don't want to listen to anyone who moans 24/7 about this and that but does nothing to change it.
Change is hard but making the effort to try to bring about change is harder.
so until I blog at you again,
take care of yourselves,
and each other.....templar