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So, talked to ex bf #2... the reason he's ignoring me... I didn't call him enough.
Yes, that is the superlame reason why he is ignoring me, rather ironic isn't it? He says that he felt like he was putting all the work into this relationship. I "never call" him anymore. Um, I never call anyone except my best female friend (and that's only if I'm depressed and need a shoulder...) I never knew that he wanted me to call. I just don't do that kind of thing. Okay, so I did it for my bf's but not for friends... I just never needed to. My friends and I have been superclose since before adolescence, so we just kinda take each other for granted, in a good way. We are just always there for each other, even if we don't see each other every day.
I tried to explain to him how my other friendships worked, and that I'd try to call him, but I couldn't promise any certain interval just because I wasn't used to it. I also tried to explain to him that as much as I'm a social person at school, I prefer to be alone and in quiet. At home I watch movies by myself, eat by myself, read by myself, and surf the internet- by myself. And that's the way I like it. I like knowing that people care about me, but I also like alone time. When my friends and I do anything, it's rarely me that sets it up, just because it doesn't feel necessary to me.
I'm not sure if he understood what I was saying. He was also mad at me for involving a teacher in a fairly large group project that no one was contributing to. There was nothing I could do. I asked the teacher to help get our group straightened out because no one was working on the project. The teacher "singled out" two guys and one of them was my ex... he didn't actually single them out, it just felt like that to them because he had already talked to the other members of the group at a meeting, (which the two guys were't at...). My ex wanted me to talk to him and not resort to talking to the teacher who is now using the project against their grades... I told ex that I couldn't do anything else because he wouldn't even look at me so I couldn't even talk to him. Then he just went back to his logic over how it's my fault because I didn't call...
Sooo, I'm not sure if the point got across. He still seemed hostile towards me. All I can say is that I felt like I was in a chick-flick, but instead of being the chick, I was the dude. Totally clueless as to why the girl is mad at me, only to find out that I didn't call, and wasn't "putting enough effort" into our relationship. I wear the damn pants in this relationship... not that I mind or anything, but it's just weird that this is a total social role reversal.
We'll see how cleared up things are at school tomorrow. >.
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Posted by sushi910 on 2008-01-21 17:02:22 | Rating: | Views: 74
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Let's hope that he doesn't break down and cry or something. hate when that happens.
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Posted by Pauligan
on 2008-01-22 22:55:05
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Tell him to get his big girl panties on and get over it. :)
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Posted by cwzywbt
on 2008-01-23 22:50:46
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Thanks for the comment! Yes, we girls are tough. I think there is every reason to be optimistic and hold our heads high.
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Posted by NE_Girl
on 2008-01-26 09:47:14
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