Yes, I have been cheated on by my ex husband (Husband at the time). The first time I caught him cheating was with his buddies ex-girlfriend. So, we seperated for about 3 months, but we both agreed to go to counseling for help. After about 3 months I started seeing the man I had always known come alive again. So I decide that I would give my marriage chance, he kept telling me I' sorry, I love you, it want happen again. Our counselor, told me several times that people can change, but they have to want to. So we got back together. We were married 2.5 yrs when I caught him cheating again. So then I left him. But I have known people that are in a relationship and been cheated on 1 time and the person that cheated on them actually did change. So my thing would be pray about it. If he really is sorry you will know it in your heart. Maybe both of you need to sit down with someone else and talk it out. I wish you the best!

i have been cheated consistently for 9 yrs but i have not caught him red handed. it was only through messages sent to other woman. i have given him many chances and now he have cheated me again and left me feeling depressed. I really dunno what to do so i might not be the best person to advise you. Follow your heart.