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i don't trust him. i do bring stuff up from the past.. but im trying not to do that anymore.

he doesn't like it when i repeat myself, i repeat myself b/c i feel like he isnt listening to me. he thinks i wait until the last minute to mention stuff, i just want to make sure that i have my thoughts together. we don't know how to fight right. we are trying this communication thing, thats what messed us up the last time. maybe im taking it too far, but he's my best friend. i thought i could talk to him about anything.. like i said, i told him he didn't have to be with me and that i was giving him his way out, he said he loves me and doesn't want out...

blah... we haven't been happy in a long time. i just want things to get better. i love him. i just cant do the fighting..

try this if you haven't already...

go to your nice relaxing place and write out everything you feel about him...just keep writing..the order is not important just write write write...
then put it away, come back to it in a day or two and re read it all...then, re write it but in some kind of sensible order...whether its by date of events, or by groupings of feelings..does not matter...then go to him, and tell him what you have done and that you want to share ti with him. Let him listen to you read it out, and ask him not to stop you until you are done. Then let him respond and you give him the same respect by not interrupting him either....then just talk about it and see where you get.

good luck. Email me anytime

i written things down, but not in this way. but i will try it.

it sounds like he wants it to work. its hard to figure what he's thinking. its hard to look pass all the unnecessary drama. i hate all the fighting, we've never been like this and its hard to handle.

but i will definitely try this.

if you want...tell him what you are going to do first..and have him do the same thing..then you can take turns reading it to each other...good luck to you...
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