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well the other night i went to the local bar with a friend.. (this is a small bar in a small town) my friend is there to keep other guys away from me as i do not like the thought of picking up a guy in a bar... well as we were leaving the first time, this guy walks in and says something like where have you been all my life.. i told him i was here but leaving.. he should have gotten there earlier... ok so my friend and i had to leave for a bit, when we came back this same guy asked me to sing with him.. i told him i had to drink more to sing.. well about an hour later my friend leaves my side and this guy comes up to me and we start to talk.. we talk for several hours, i had mentioned talking to him earlier in the night and he stated that he didnt remember but apologized... anyways, good conversation, im really likeing this guy, although it goes way past my picking up guys in bars, but what the heck... the owner of the bar (who i know) was putting good words in for this guy, im not sure if he was trying to make me like him or what... as the night (morning) grew on, he asked me for my number so i give it to him.. then he takes a pic of one of my tattoos to use as i guess pic id... he walks me to my car and asks if he can kiss me, i said ok... we kissed for a bit and then he asked me to take his number so i could let him know i made it home safely. when i get home i send a message saying something along the moronic lines of cant wait to see you again.. im home" he replys back "you too, sleep well" this is the last i have heard from him.. 34 hours later i send him a text saying " just wanted to say hi and see how you have been" it is now 30 hours later (from the text) and i still have not heard anything from him.. i dont know if i should just give up on this.. we really seemed to click.. at least i thought so.. i am all against picking people up in bars.. but he was very gentalman like and did not even attempt to have sex or sexual talk.. so now i am just sitting here in wonder of what to do... in a way i want to believe that he did not remember anything since he didnt remember the first two times we exchanged a few words that night.. i dont know if i should wait a few days to see if he does message me, and message him if he doesnt, but more than likely i am thinking i should just give up on it and throw it with the rest of my love life that is non-existant and go back to my no picking up guys in bars... if i see him again, (the owner said that he was a silent partner, so he will be back around) do i talk to him, wait for him to talk to me, if he does talk to me, should i ask if he remembers me, or should i (while talking) send him a text and say "you dont remember me do you??"
it has been a long long time since i found someone that i had "clicked" with that much.. who knows, maybe it was the few beers i had had... i really thought i liked this guy, and in the back of my head i could have possibly seen it going somewhere.. i have kept myself blocked from guys and wont let them get close, but in a matter of hours, i felt as if i had known him for a long time.. usually when i meet a guy, i am really uncomfortable and nervous, but not with him, i was relaxed and at ease...
if anyone outside my box has any input or ideas on this, it would be greatly appreciated.. (when i say outside my box, basically i mean anyone reading this with opinions, since it is easier to see things better from the outside than the inside..)
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Posted by styrafoamcup on 2007-12-29 21:38:10 | Rating: | Views: 110
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If he hasn't contacted you there are probably some issues somewhere. Did he have a fight with a girlfriend before he went out but they have since made up? Did he collect a number of phone numbers that night? I think he should have to contact you first. But hell, I'm certainly no expert on love lifes. Good luck.
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Posted by HungryHeart
on 2007-12-29 21:46:47
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i was thinking that too.. i was the only girl he talked to that night.. i figure that he should contact first, but someone told me there were some kind of rules... about 2 days and 3 but no more than a week.. lol i really dont know.. thanks for the comment though!!
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Posted by styrafoamcup
on 2007-12-29 21:51:15
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Never give up//He will be back go visit the bar.This time you meet him you will see.
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Posted by shellyme
on 2007-12-29 22:47:21
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i went to the bar tonight... he had already told me he doesnt go on weekends.. talked to the owner.. he said that he was just joking when he said he was a silent partner, but that the guy was a good guy... so i dunno... guess i will find out sooner or later!!
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Posted by styrafoamcup
on 2007-12-30 04:13:18
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Don't even try to contact him. He dropped the ball, not you. He probably has something else going. If you were that great to him, he would have contacted you. If he forgot everything about that night, you really need to run; cuz that's bad.
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Posted by Delawara
on 2007-12-30 13:15:22
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lol yeah thats what i was thinking.. its one thing to forget a hi how are you, but another to forget several hours.. lol.. i went to the bar last night and the owner was still telling me how good of a guy the guy was.. lol..
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Posted by styrafoamcup
on 2007-12-30 13:19:04
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well i found out that he does not have a girlfriend and he is not married, but still have not heard from him... oh well.. his loss right?
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Posted by styrafoamcup
on 2008-01-02 14:22:49
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