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 the boyfriend and the stepdad
okay so the rules for me, was that when i turned 16, i would be allowed to date. well i tried to tell my stepfather, who has been in my life since i was 2 years old, threw a fit the first time i ever mentioned having a boyfriend and maybe going out to a dance with him.  but i had told my stepdad that before i did anything i wanted him to meet this boy, because i want him to like my boyfriend, i wanted my boyfriend to be able to come down and watch football together, something..but my stepfather wants nothing to do with it, he said that he hates me, and wants nothing to do with me, whats so ever, why? i don't know he thinks i'm stupid and irresponsible, but i am told that i act older then my real age, i've had a job since i was 14, old enough to get my working papers, i have good grades, not the best but still not horrible, and my boyfriend has two jobs, plays on the football team and does indoor track, doesn't swear, drink, smoke, do drugs, has great grades, and he doesn't even drink soda,doesn't want to have children until he is out of college and has a good stable job, but my stepfather won't give either of us a chance to prove it to him that we won't be stupid and go and do something that could turn into something bad. i'm out of things to do anymore, he won't hear me out, and i haven't heard a word out of my stepfathers mouth in over two weeks. i don't know what to do..


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    Posted by stargirlyblue on 2009-10-03 19:55:15 | Rating: | Views: 25
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There is only one real rule in life sweetheart. You can never please your parents. Ever. Stop trying. Live your life the way you want to. No matter what you do, you're parents will never be impressed. The sooner you stop trying to make them happy the sooner you will be happy. It's sad, but true.
Posted by  iBruno  on 2009-10-03 20:03:19 
  
thanks. and ya i guess thats pretty much what i have to do, my mom is fine with it, just my stepfather, but i guess i can't make everyone happy right?
Posted by  stargirlyblue  on 2009-10-03 20:22:00 
  
Like I said, it's your life. Stop trying to make other people happy. The ones who love you will be happy that your happy.

Besides, your stepfather sounds like a right idiot.
Posted by  iBruno  on 2009-10-03 20:29:16 
  
Don't sweat it-there will always be someone who doesn't approve of you or what you are doing, but remember...in the end the only person you have to answer to is YOU.
Posted by  ladiegodiva  on 2009-10-03 20:40:37 
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