Following my last blog, thank you both for your lovely advice. Easy2say/Kel, I am so glad to have your friendship.  I did what you said and continued to rise above it. Of course, doing that, I didn't really know what to reply to her text. So, I spoke to my brother about what she said and just said that I didn't mind him being friends with Rich and it was all good. I didn't even reply to her. Only, my brother being my brother, told him and thus a row between Rich and his fiancee occurred. Nobody was mad at me, other than her. She text me again saying I was basically causing trouble between her and Rich because I was jealous. I had dinner at my mum's yesterday and Rich came to pick my brother up for a drink. He wasn't funny with me, just said I shouldn't have said anything but he said his fiancee's main issue is she doesn't trust him and apparently his Mum has said that the only reason she tries with his fiancee is because of her grandaughter, which must be hard. I ended up going with them for the drink and I told him when my brother popped to the bathroom I didn't want to be his friend if it was going to cause this trouble and it was for the best that we carry on as we have been the last 2 years. It's just easier that way. I'm with my fiancee, I'm happy, we have a gorgeous son, I don't feel that way for Rich and when we tried to be friends before things did get complicated. When I told him I didn't think we should be friends he said he's missed me and went to hold my hand, which freaked me out a bit. He text me a few hours later asking if we could meet up for a drink on our own so I wish I'd never gone now or tried to make an effort. Men eh...
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