Why is it that a person think gays & lesbians want every one they see that's like you have a gay friend and you think there coming on to you or always thinking that a gay person wants to have sex with you .That is not the case we're not that premiscuos a lesbian doesn't want to sleep with every woman she comes in contact with ,A gay man doesn't want to sleep with every man he talkes to most of the time its just friendly conversation .Gays & lesbians are not attracted to every one just like you are not it's hard having friends and they think you are hitting on them or looking at them in a certain way some people are looking harder and paying attention more than us .I still don't know why gays are not allowed in the army were human nobody is thinking like oh it's some cute guys in the army and I will be around them all the time let me go and enlist in there woohooo,or a lesbian thinking wow all the women in there let me try to find a girlfriend or sleep with as many as I can woohoo.No gay people are not thinking about sex and hooking up 24/7  we don't want everybody in the world come on we do have standards and morals  just because we like and are attracted to the same sex don't mean we lust and want to make a life with everyone of them