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I am a complete failure in mating game. If I look at my life of 30 years, I haven’t really done any serious mating encounters; some unfamiliar 30 years’ old virgin. When I think about myself, two characters from movies come to my mind; Konkona from Life in a Metro and Rahul Bose from Mumbai Matinee. They are not similar to me. In fact they are very different. Only one similarity: Both of them were 30 years old virgin initially in the movie. It’s not that I am very much edgy over the whole issue. Initially in my college days, I used to feel bad over this. I used to see my friends having serious relations. Traveling and touring with their girl friends, telling typical male stories of sex and love. I used to feel inferior. It was some male complex. Now I am comfortable with me. It’s not that I haven’t had any women friends. I also had a lot of them as friends; but, just friends. They all came and went away. I remained the same.
People may think what a sad case I am. Ya, in a way, sex is one of the needs of healthy animals. And, a person who could not do that long after his puberty is definitely a sad case. Especially, when people have sex much earlier in our time. Early sex was there in US, Europe and other parts of the world. But, these days conservative parts of the world are also opening early for sex.
Actually, I grew up in a very conservative environment. I didn't even have much interaction with the girls in my teens. My interaction with this species started much later, when I was in my post graduation. That is also an interesting story. I was rather a very shy guy, didn't have much expertise to be good with feminine ways. But the funny part is girls used to like my ineptitude. I was liked. They asked me several times to accompany them. Boys took it differently. They thought it's a strategy of mine. They thought my naiveté is my weapon and they used to find me very effecient with girls. I enjoyed that a lot.
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Posted by somethingintheway on 2008-03-05 06:47:09 | Rating: | Views: 92
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i am a strong believer of the fact that there is someone out there for everyone no matter what your background, religion, financial situation etc. it is just a matter of time
mots
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Posted by mots
on 2008-03-05 07:34:18
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"Mating game, mating encounters, healthy animals, this species"... This could be what lost in translation looks like, but, aren't there Indian words for sex, lovemaking, women and gender? May I suggest being a bit less "clinical" about this beautiful, natural form of expression and communication?
I do hope that you find the love of your life, I really do! Good luck!
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Posted by Ellie2008
on 2008-03-06 12:07:44
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It is really great to see someone from india opening up on a topic like this..
kudos
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Posted by wanderingmind
on 2008-03-07 07:54:03
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I agree with Ellie, you have become misguided some how. You have lost a connection to women, seeing them as so different. Go and get a shag it will help you in the long run.
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Posted by yadokta
on 2008-03-08 07:48:40
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