FUCK YEAH!!! I just had a very interesting interesting conversation with an older gentlemen. I actually do think this  man has a lot of interesting points AND, I consider him to be very intelligent... (maybe he thinks this too...a little too much....maybe this is where his error is). He has a lot to say as well. He definitely does. Yes, ....OH YES, he does. LOL! Honesty was the initial topic when I spoke to  him then, it floated around to other subjects. You know, subjects just tend to get tossed in and out like old socks when speaking to new people but, it was a very enlightening conversation. This convo. lasted for about an hour and abruptly ended when it came to the subject of submissiveness and dominance. He said that I was an obvious submissive...I agreed. It was kind of refreshing because he added that submissiveness is not something negative like society calls it. Submissiveness is not "weakness" he added. It just is another "half of the equation." I agreed. I also added, (not that this has anything to do with the topic at hand) that I thought maybe I was "forced" into being a "submissive." I watched my Dad basically demean my mother for years upon years and, all it did was make me angry at men. Deep inside of myself I may not be the "typical dominant" but, I sure as hell am not my mother. I want my voice to matter and if it doesn't...well, I move on to the next. See, a "dominant" may argue their opinion to a person that doesn't see their way...ME, I take the more logical way out...I leave. LOL! After all, there is no point in forcing the world to agree with my views.What can I gain from that? NOTHING. Either way,I would still live my life with my own rules. And, I'm not a fan of "debate" anyways. Anywhooo, back to the point! Everything was agreeable when it came to one another's views for quite a while. Then, the shit hit the fan! He said: "See, a dominant woman would use force to get her way; a submissive woman would.....I said: "what, refuse sex?" He laughed and said, no because a dominant man would get it anyways. I said, "what?" He said: "yeah, I would just take it. Sooooooo, I said: "you would rape your wife?" He said: "Hahahahaha, you can't rape your wife!" WTF??? I was silent for a while. I tried to make it REALLY clear as to what I meant. I even went as far as to give examples. I wanted so much for me to be misunderstanding him. He said, "no, if she isn't in the mood, it doesn't matter, I would just take it". FUCKING ASSHOLE!!! At this point I never felt such a distance between men and women IN MY LIFE! And believe me, that is saying alot because I have dealt with a shitload of injustices in this area. Now, I am not saying that every man is this way...THANK GOD THEY'RE NOT!!! I mean, I have never felt so thankful of my boyfriend who is definitely not your typical macho man. But, in my twisted mind (yes, I admit it ).... in these situations, I cannot help but label men. Yes, it's a fault, I admit it. I am just letting everyone know how I felt. So, at this point, I ended the conversation without even a warning. I could'nt care any less of him even if I tried. It was as if I never knew he existed. Now, I know that there are people out there that agree with him. Maybe some of you are even women but, if I DON'T want to get laid...YOU BETTER GET THE FUCK OFF OF ME OR I WILL STAB THE SHIT OUT OF YOU!!!! I DON'T GIVE A FUCK IF YOU ARE MY HUSBAND OR A BOYFRIEND...YOU BETTER BACK OFF, FUCKER!!! :) And, I think that every woman has the right to do so.... tee hee! So people...(women especially).....the world is fucked up....REALLY fucked up. It's not even that people are trying to be bad, they're just used to rules society gave them. What makes that right? Society can be wrong just like any ONE person can. Don't ever let anyone demean you...you are worth SO MUCH MORE. When it comes to this issue or any other issue, just believe in yourself! PLEASE!!! And, if you are not sure of what is right or wrong...just pay attention to how you feel about it and how much struggle is taking up your precious time, because it definitley is precious.......this will be the ultimate deciding factor. It's that simple. I promise you. Ahhhh, I feel sooo much better. LOL, thanks for listening.