What do you do when you love someone and can't be with them. I have been married 30 years but have fallen very badly for a lovely 37 year old woman who I care about, her children think of me as their Dad and they want me to stay the night so i can be there to play with them in the morning. They have even suggested i could sleep with their Mum. Oh god the innocence of kids, if only they knew. Ah well it can never be but a man can dream.