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What's wrong with dating more than one person? It seems that a woman is immediately labelled as a slut by both men and other women if she chooses to date around, while it is okay for a guy.
I think that there is absolutely nothing wrong with datiing more than one person. There of course will come a point where choices will have to be made. This brings up another question. If you are dating more than one person, are you obligated to share that information with the people you are dating? Or is it safe to assume that unless you have a talk about being exclusive that you are free to date whoever you want?
My opinion is that unless you have a talk about being exclusive, you should not assume that your love interest is not dating others. I also feel that one is not olbigated to share their dating information with others, however, If you are having sex with any of the people involved then you ARE obligated to practice safe sex. Personally, if I care about a man enough to sleep with him, then it is time to cast the others aside
Now, how do you go about disentangling yourself from other relationships if you decide to go from dating many to dating one? This is very hard. When I decided to get back together with my current boyfriend, I was dating two other men. I really liked one of them and did not want to hurt his feelings and I really did not want to stop dating him. However I had to make the choice, so I told him that I decided to get back with my ex. I know he was hurt and I felt bad, but I coud not continue to see both. The third guy was very casual and so I just stopped returning his calls.
Dating multiple people can be a mess, so be prepared.
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Posted by singleat41 on 2008-07-16 11:40:49 | Rating: | Views: 177
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gee i envy you, i can hardly get one date to stick with me long enough to call it a relationship! yet you're cherry picking your dates,and tossing them out, wish i had your charm : <
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Posted by 40fabulouslonely
on 2008-07-22 11:43:03
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