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The Prologue
Hi, my name is Kayla. Nope this is not a support group, it is a book. Right now, I have no idea how this story will end. I am merely hoping for the best. Three years ago, I was a "normal" suburban wife. Twenty year marriage, 2.5 kids, decent job, and hell even a dog.......Read More

Posted on: 2008-09-30 07:29:12 | Rating:

| Views: 20 | Comments: 0 | Tags: Life Love Fiction

Th Book Pitch
Okay, it has been a while since I have blogged. I am in the throas of a new job and formulating a book. So this is a autobiographical book about me and my friends. The names and the places will be changed, but all else will be real and interesting. It is sort of like Sex and......Read More

Posted on: 2008-09-30 06:02:37 | Rating:

| Views: 29 | Comments: 0 | Tags: Love relationships book break-ups

When a Lingering Relationship Ends
Ever had a relationship that would just not die? What I am talking about is one of those break-up and make-up rollercoaster things, where you fall in and out of love and friendship, break-up and get back together, alternate between being friends and lovers because you can't live with or without......Read More

Posted on: 2008-08-27 23:10:33 | Rating:

| Views: 74 | Comments: 1 | Tags: Relationships Love Break-Up Loss

Separation-Murky Waters for Dating Explicit Content
Dating while separated is a gray area for many people. I remember back at the end of 2005 and when my ex-husband and I decided to call it quits, I started dating Rebound Guy three weeks later. I got a mixed reactions and EVERYONE had an opinion. Most of my male friends were high fiving and......Read More

Posted on: 2008-07-24 01:42:49 | Rating:

| Views: 164 | Comments: 0 | Tags: Dating Separated Divorce Rebound

Dating Multiple People
What's wrong with dating more than one person? It seems that a woman is immediately labelled as a slut by both men and other women if she chooses to date around, while it is okay for a guy. I think that there is absolutely nothing wrong with datiing more than one person. There of course will......Read More

Posted on: 2008-07-16 11:40:49 | Rating:

| Views: 177 | Comments: 1 | Tags: Dating Playing the Field Fidelity Relationships

Rules of the Game
As I have mentioned before, dating and relatiosnships have changed a LOT since the last time I was part of the game. After my separation, everyone was lining up giving me advice on how to rejoin the dating game and what rules need to be followed. I almost wish that there are such a thing as......Read More

Posted on: 2008-07-01 09:43:49 | Rating:

| Views: 119 | Comments: 7 | Tags: Dating Rules Relationships

The Psychology of a Cheater....
I was reading a bog last night, and the writer stated that she did not understand why people don't break up instead of cheating. I will try to explain, using the expert perspectives and my own expereinces. I really think that I am on to something!!! First of all, in order to understand a......Read More

Posted on: 2008-06-29 11:18:21 | Rating:

| Views: 343 | Comments: 19 | Tags: Cheating Realationships Sex Emotions

Interracial Dating
Even though we have a biracial candidate and hopefully president, many people are still opposed to black men and white women dating and mating. Where, I live, gay dating is very acceptable, but when I, as a white woman go places with my black boyfriend, at least ONE person gives us the stare......Read More

Posted on: 2008-06-28 22:14:25 | Rating:

| Views: 245 | Comments: 5 | Tags: Dating Interracial Relationships

A Bit More About this Blogger
Right now, I am sitting here, when I should be at a Barack Obama fundraiser.(Yeah I will get there, as it is until 6PM). But it is a picnic and it is rainy. My windows are open, and I am enjoying the sound of the rain with Bronson Arroyo's CD playing in the background. I am a huge Red Sox......Read More

Posted on: 2008-06-22 14:17:42 | Rating:

| Views: 52 | Comments: 0 | Tags: Obama Blogging

Casual Dating
Ah, yet another new term to me when it comes to modern relationships, "Casual Dating" . What exactly does this term connote? This is a term most often used by older woman daters to describe their dating status. My friend Lisa has been "casually dating" Clark for several......Read More