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My mother came over today. i showed her the internet we looked at funnyvideos and smoked a
funny ciggerette. My mother and i have always been open and im sure that some would be esstatic to have a cool mother but when your mom starts to talk to you like one of your girlfrinds and advising you on what kind of sex toy is the best i draw the line. what ever happend to my "dont forget to wear your jaket!" mom i mean ever since iv moved out my mother has changed slowly at first now more rapidly and going downward shes wild dresses like a teenage slut slut sorry ma but you do that shirt was way to reveling i start to feel out of my element as the daughter when i hear myself say things like "pull that down" "stop it act your age" and "you cant go out like that". I think she gets a kick outta shocking me she steps out of the cab and watches my reaction maybe shes paying me back for my bootyshort phase. but thruth is thruth when your mother starts talking to you about dildos shes not your "mother" any more she "cool mom"
can someone please explain the deffinition of cool
sincerly yours, silent screamer
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Posted by silentscreamer on 2007-09-04 21:49:19 | Rating: | Views: 73
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The definition of a "cool mom" is one who loves and accepts you as you are, but is not afraid to tell you the truth when you need to hear it. She shares in your joys and sorrows, but she respects the boundaries. She dresses in a style that enhances her beauty--but does not degrade or ridicule the feminine.
Your mom might be having a hard time accepting the change in her life: her daughter is grown up and an adult. She may see herself as "old" and doesn't know how to handle her feelings about that. It may take her a while to sort all that out.
It is hard seeing your kids grow up, your family change and sort of "dissolve". A person has to constantly evolve and move on with the flow of life. It takes a while and may involve a few missteps.
She may be trying to find a way to connect with you, too. Since you are so close to her, have a talk, but do it gently. Go shopping with her and find her some awesome outfits that are more appropriate and encourage her. You sound like a loving daughter--I am sure you will work it out.
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Posted by speech529
on 2007-09-04 23:22:30
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