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Ahhh!! The calm before the storm. Well, that was over quick. G/f and I quickly degraded to arguments again tonight. Everything was going really well until she decided we should renegotiate the terms of contact with my friend J. She decided after seeing a therapist a few weeks ago that we needed to set boundaries with our friends, which means for me to set boundaries with my close friend of many years (who happens to be female), J. G/f decided that I should have no more than 6 communications per month with J, including texts, emails, phone calls, etc. 6 communications, total!! It's crazy b/c this is simply a product of g/f's insecurity, but I coalesced b/c the therapist was involved and I wanted to confirm that I supported her seeing a therapist. But she's taken it too far, and the therapist has no idea b/c she's only been in the loop for such a short time. Anyway, things were going well tonight until she decided we needed to talk more about J's 6 communications and what happened on Thursday night (when she became irrational and I broke up with her for the first time, and she freaked out). So now it's 1am and we're having a huge fight about whether 10 times per month of communication is ok and why one of my coworkers is out to get g/f.
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Posted by shinsfrommars on 2008-01-30 02:27:22 | Rating: | Views: 84
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gf.paranoid much?
i feel sorry for you mate
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Posted by roxietheroxie
on 2008-01-30 02:38:16
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