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 When Seconds Really Count....
I've often marvelled at the difference a minute makes. A minute can make the difference between life and death, triumph and tragedy, sometimes it is mere seconds that count. Think of the seconds ticking down in a football game, each one so critical. Compare that to our lives, and the grace of God that sometimes steps in and saves us from an awful fate, seconds count.

This morning around 5:20 a.m.,  R.J. left for work. He has about a six minute drive to work, and since he has driven this drive for sixteen years straight, he can do it with very little concentration. I am sure sometimes he is in auto pilot, and wonders how he even got to work in the first place. He has been stopped once for rolling through a stop sign at the end of our road, because he was on auto pilot. Anyways, this morning he was driving to work, when a young man ran in front of his truck. Apparently the young man had just robbed a convenience store to R.J.'s left, and set off an alarm. In his haste to get away, he ran straight in front of R.J. who just managed to miss him. In fact, he felt real sure that his truck grazed his body, just as he ran past.

Of course R.J. called the police and told them what happenned. It was dark and it happenned so fast, he could not even tell them whether this young man was white, black or mexican. All he could really tell was that he was young. All day he was just sick, knowing that he could have killed this kid. A kid who is probably the same age as our son, but one that is not as blessed as ours is. A young man desperate enough for money, that he risked his life to get it.

Mere seconds saved this boy's life, and saved R.J. years of painful remorse. Years of wondering had he done one little thing differently, perhaps leaving seconds later from home, could things have been different. I am so thankful that R.J. did not run over this boy and kill him. Sure he should not have been stealing (R.J. did not see anything in his hands, so it was probably a failed attempt). Sure he was in the wrong, and of course he should be punished. However, the mother in me and the father in R.J., would not want to live knowing that this kid died over fifty dollars.

Tragedies touch our lives everyday. Sometimes though, the hand of fate gently moves us a little off path to save us the grief of a huge accident. We stop and pet the dog, we roll down the window to let out a fly, we throw our hand up at our neighbor, we check to see if we locked the doors one more time. Not knowing that all these little gestures move us in space like the turn of a kaleidescope, and sort our fate out one second at a time. 

peace :) shemelts

    Posted by shemelts on 2009-11-03 18:04:16 | Rating: | Views: 44
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I'm glad the kid didn't get killed either. Even though your husband wouldn't of been at fault..its a heavy burden to live with knowing you have taken another's life. That kids guardian angel must of been watching over him....or watching over your husband!!

Time...makes a huge difference is all facets of our lives, that's for sure.

...dani
Posted by  WalkinOnSunshine  on 2009-11-03 18:10:10 
  
Dani..Thank you for your comment. Yea I think there were several guardian angels in place. I hope it scared the bejeebies out of that kid, I know it did my husband.

Timing is everything.

peace :) shemelts
Posted by  shemelts  on 2009-11-03 18:47:27 
  
Wow, it is amazing the difference that a fraction of a second can make. I am glad things worked out. Take Care.
Posted by  prelude2it  on 2009-11-03 20:11:43 
  
I know how he feels.. I was following an old station wagon when the tailgate popped open.. and a child fell out right in front of me. how I missed him I do not know but I did, thank God. I took out some fence but.. I had to miss two days of work.. I couldn't stop shaking.. prayers for RJ..
Posted by  pastormike  on 2009-11-03 21:12:27 
  
Maybe it did scare the bejeebies out of the kid and he will realize that he nearly lost his life all for a failed crime or $50.00. Maybe (just maybe) he saw his life flash before his eyes and didn't like what he saw. Maybe he will change his life's direction.

Peace
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Posted by  merrynbright  on 2009-11-05 12:53:26 
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