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I totally agree with this post. My father was a raging alcoholic and my mother was his enabler. I went to bed nights praying he would not kill her, and sometimes I prayed he would just go away. It was a painful way to grow up and a very skewed way to teach about love and family relationships. I...

Posted in dented love on 2008-09-30 11:34:08

Everyone..Thank you for your comments and your support. Actually I am taken back by his attitude toward my body. His body is imperfect of course and other than him being very overweight or too thin, I have no objections. He reminded me that when he lost too much weight, I put up a fuss (I really...

Posted in Pick Your Poison..... on 2008-09-30 11:14:40

L.G. Personally, I am very comfortable with my husband and with myself. I think that if you want to amp your sex life up, give him what he asks for. I don't think there are many things that turn a man on more than watching a woman touch herself..knowing that they are doing it for his benefit...

Posted in Slightly Sexual on 2008-09-29 19:27:39

Douglas, Way to go buddy. Sounds like you come out the winner in this one. Smile??? I am always smiling. :D peace :) shemelts

Posted in Update on job... on 2008-09-29 19:19:57

Douglas..Wow..sucked the wind right out of that one didn't she? You know I think that you had some really good ideas for this date. So what if they didn't work out, I would have thought she would have appreciated the gesture. The gardens are absolutely beautiful and I think she just doesn't...

Posted in The date... on 2008-09-29 12:16:49

HH..You wouldn't so much feel the sensation of being shot..you would feel the panic of not surviving. You would feel the panic of what you could have done differently and wanting to survive to make things right. You would panic over things left unsaid and feelings that weren't revealed. You would...

Posted in The Need to Feel on 2008-09-29 10:15:29

S.O. I too enjoy your horror stories about life as the train operator. I too experience the stupidity of parents. I wonder why some of these people are allowed to procreate. Hmmmm...we shall never know. Keep writing..it is quite enlightening. peace :) shemelts

Posted in Wheels on Wheels on 2008-09-29 08:57:53

Douglas..Gorgeous pics of the gardens. I think the tunnel would be a beautiful place to hold a small intimate wedding ceremony..Nice! Thank you for sharing. peace :) shemelts

Posted in Pictures.... on 2008-09-29 07:50:02

Scott..You are not alone. There are a lot of women who do this to men. The most important thing at this point is for you to put a stop to this. Do not send her any money. Love does not equal money..and her assuring you she will come back if you help her with this expense or that one, is just...

Posted in typical day on 2008-09-29 06:52:42

whiteknight...Lifes about choices my friend. For everything you gain you lose something. My suggestion is to look at this situation and think of what you could possibly gain and then what you will lose. If you can withstand the loss and accept the gain then choose the gain. There is never an easy...

Posted in The biggest question I ever asked on 2008-09-27 12:34:14