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A Mother's Pain
My son died four weeks ago, July 22nd of melanoma.
To see his ravaged body totally destroyed me. I am a mother. To see my son's body ravished by this awful disease and see him in denial gave me such pain that I will never forget this for the rest of my life.
I am a mother.
To complicate matters, his father, "the doctor/surgeon" put me through such torture it's hard for me to believe that this man is a physician; however, physicians are "people" too. He denied me from seeing my son. He denied me from having any contact with my son. How do such people exist? Tell me.
And this is a doctor?
This man has no ego. He is dark. He always pitted my dying son between us after our divorce. During our marriage this doctor took my son on dates with him . This doctor gave himself hepetitus so he wouldn't have to go into the military. Berry Plan This doctor can't get enough money. He is so malignant.
I'd like to get over my anger towards this helpless, pitiful person who denied me the honor of seeing my son the last days of his life. Who wrote a script for my son's wife to read to me telling me my son came to "closure" when I saw him the Monday before his death (Sun. July 22). "Closure" what does that mean? That 90's word.
How does this human being get out of bed in the morning?
How does he get satisfaction by pitting people against one another. He used to represent attorneys for accident work. Now he works for the insurance company.
Please help me to understand vile, awful, people. Please help me understand people who run with this wolf.
Can't his friends see his motives.
I spent the day in jail, Fri. July 20th as my ex-the- doctor accused me of tresspasing and damaging his car. Which was a total lie. I wanted to see my son before he died and my ex and his awful wife had me arrested.
Mother's Day 2007 his wife sends me a post card . On one side was a woman, alone. Forlorned. Turn the post card over and it said, "How was mother's day? I bet you were lonely?"
He married his image.
How do evil people live?
I won't even get into my son's physicians and the HIPPA ACT.
I just remember my bubbie's (grandmother) caring doctor, who would come to our house in the good old days every Friday and administered T.L.C. He knew every part of her aching body. There were no "specialists" then. Just loving men who cared about their patients. That was the medicine of the day. T.L.C.
Today there is a "specialist" for every part of your body.
Perhaps if a doctor would have examined my son's scalp where his melanma was he would be here today with his wife and 2 1/2yr. old. But doctors on a routine exam don't even examine your scalp.
So to all who read this...please examine your scalp to see if theirs an unusual brown dark lesion. I want you to live. Thank you!!!!!
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Posted by shaynapunim on 2007-08-19 07:36:19 | Rating: | Views: 158
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There is a typo sorry. There's for theirs in the last paragraph and melanoma. Content. Not spelling. computer skills just ain't my thing.
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Posted by shaynapunim
on 2007-08-19 07:40:50
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I wish I could reach right through this computer and give you a big hug!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted by Jesusmyvision
on 2007-08-19 08:31:26
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im so sorry bout ur son!!!!!!!!
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Posted by sk8tr_boy
on 2007-08-19 09:38:37
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From the standpoint of the patient, being near death and recently hospitalized, I looked so bad the doctors wouldn't allow my parents to visit me, and I was 38. I'm sure most doctors do this for the sake of the parents seeing a son suffer. In your case, with the divorce, going to jail from your ex's lies, and the topper being that card (not a birthday card saying you were lonely from the divorce, but a mother's day card taunting you at the loss of your son--also the son of this woman's new husband), I've never heard of such a pile of filth, both him and her.
I too am totally irate about these new HIPPA laws. I'm divorced, cover my kids with med insurance, their mother takes them to therapy for their behavior and keeps them drugged out of their minds on ritalin rather than taking responsibility for her actions being what caused their behavior (having an affair, taking them from me). Anyway, I provide the coverage for the insurance, they are my children that I support and always have, and they can't release any medical information about them to me. Talk about a screwed up country.
Sorry for your losing your son. My kids are living, but it tears my heart out I couldn't see them grow up and help them with the problems of getting up to the teen years, school, peer pressure, etc.
Heck maybe my ex-wife is the one who married your ex-husband. She's that heartless, cruel, and dimwitted enough to do such a thing.
Hope things improve for you. Take care.
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Posted by excelsior3825
on 2007-08-20 15:20:00
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I'm sorry for your loss! I don't think I can say anything else seeing as I haven't felt something that painful in my life yet. Normally, I would think that the doctor must have had a good reason but, for the life of me, I can't figure it out and I'm usually good at picking through peoples minds (as good a a high school freshman can be). I could never understand the depths of your pain but I'm going to repeat something I've heard in a lot of movies, if that's alright. "Your son would want you to be happy and not try to extract revenge on the dumb arrogant doctor. Though no one has said anything about thinking about it, he wouldn't want you to do it." Though it wavered from the original purpose, it says what should be said. I'm not a big fan of doctors, either; my dad's one.
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Posted by Sirem
on 2007-08-20 20:01:52
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I agree with Sirem - regardless of what influences your ex may have had on your son - I feel that your son would not want his passing and all that has transpired, regarding your ex and the new wife, to ruin the rest of your life!
You may need to get counseling to help you through this time. If you believe in God, praying and asking Him to help you find peace, is a good start.
I hope you can find the courage to overcome all the pain and heartache you have suffered! I care! :)
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Posted by Alice
on 2007-08-23 15:53:42
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Sorry for the typo--HIPPA. It should be HIPAA, Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act.
I posted before and as I said, hope things are bearable though I know it's hard. God Bless.
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Posted by excelsior3825
on 2007-08-27 11:02:55
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Thank you all for your love and support.
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Posted by shaynapunim
on 2007-08-28 05:59:56
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