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I am 23 years old. I have 2 boys. They are 1 and 3. I am shocked at how a woman could under any circumstances actually murder her own child. A baby is a baby no matter where it is. Whether it has came out to greet you and say hello or whether it is still in its nice cozy home… A mother’s belly. I have always been against abortion. I did in the past though think that under extreme circumstances it should be ok. I no longer feel that way. If you are old enough to en gage in intercourse you should be old enough to take care of a child. If you are raped and get pregnant I can understand you may be angry. I suggest if you don’t want the baby adopt it out. It is not the babies fault! I have known people as young as 14 to have a baby. They kept it though. I think women don’t realize that when they get an abortion it is going to haunt them forever because they are killing their child and deep down in their heart they know this. It is a sad world that we can actually be ok with a woman killing a baby. Please tell me if a woman walks into a hospital room where her baby lays and kills it...is it murder? Of course, so why if a woman walks into a abortion clinic and lets a doctor take her baby of her hands and murder it is it legal? Some people may say well if it weren’t legal it would just be done on the black market like it was so long ago. Who cares? if that where the case it wouldn’t happen as often as it does now. Maybe some babies would be saved. They are so small and fragile. It is our job as adults to protect them. Whether we are protecting them from ourselves, our family, or even our wife or husband. If I knew a woman who wanted an abortion I would flat out say can I please take the baby and raise it. I will never ask you for anything. That is what I Would say. There are women out there who cannot have a child and want one so very, very bad. So why not just let them adopt the child? Also why would a woman listen to a man when he says get an abortion? It’s not his body or his heart being messed with. The word pro choice makes me sick. Prochoice for what? The choice of whether you should kill your child or not. Oh yay we as women get the choice to either KILL our baby or keep it alive. Wow! We really got screwed over. That should not even be a choice. That is a shame. I don’t who in their right mind would actually say I would rather murder my child than let someone w=else take it off my hands. I am saddened and disappointed by this. Please listen to me when I say if you are even thinking about an abortion just remember its murder. Your baby actually has a heartbeat, it could already have fingers, toes, hair, and it feels pain. So when the doctor sucks it out and kills it, it hurts the baby. It feels pain. That is the most important thing to remember. PAIN! I am a young mother who is struggling but my children always come first. If I only had a dollar in my pocket it would be all there’s if they needed it. I may not be able to give them the world but I gave them their life. That is the most precious and important thing I could have ever given them. I prayed for them and so far I am doing ok. I got pregnant at 18 and married. They are the love of my life. Sometimes it is stressful because I am only 23 and haven’t really got to have a lot of fun but I just say I will have my fun when they are grown. i beg of a woman if you get anything from this paper I have written please let it be they are a baby no matter their age size or location. They are alive and living in you. Please don’t hurt them.
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Posted by shawna201985 on 2008-01-28 13:24:18 | Rating: | Views: 121
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Please feel free to comment this blog whether you agree or disagree. Thanks!
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Posted by shawna201985
on 2008-01-28 13:39:15
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I understand your frustration, I do. I will probably never have children without alot of help. That said...you can't (no one can) comment unless you have lived through every single scenario you just mentioned.
I used to be completely anti-abortion, because it breaks my heart to think of a baby I could be loving effectively going to waste...dying needlessly. I used to say under no cicumstances could it ever be right to have an abortion.
But then I had to ask myself...how do I know what it feels like, to be in a situation where abortion seems like the only answer? Could I be strong enough to carry a baby that I had been forced to carry because a rapist put it there? To live with a permanent reminder of being raped? Could I then have the inner strength to love that baby unconditonally?
I think I personally could do that, because as you rightfully said...it's not the baby's fault. But the fact is I don't KNOW that I could...because its never happened to me.
Also...what about abortions that are necessary because the mother's life is in danger? What bout carrying twins and being told you will lose them both unless you abort one?
It's so complex, that I no longer believe wholeheartedly that abortions are wrong...it's rarely done because its the easy option, and its something women have to live with forever.
I think murder is a very strong word to use as it implies a sense of malice and 'non-caring' and I can't imagine very many women go through abortions thinking this way.
I imagine it to be the hardest decision a woman can ever make.
But as I said...it's never happened to me...so I don't know.
I do understand why you wrote this though, I just wish there were a little more compassion in this world, and a little less judgement.
For every woman who has an abortion simply because its the easiest thing to do...I'm sure there must be a million women who agonise over the decision and I would always offer support and help before condemnation.
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Posted by chebtastic1
on 2008-01-28 13:51:53
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Hope I haven't come across as rude...it's a touchy subject and I tend to get kinda carried away...don't take it personal!
Be thankful every day you have two children...it truly is a gift
xxx peace xxx
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Posted by chebtastic1
on 2008-01-28 13:53:24
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I dont mind your comment but in those cases you mentioned there is always adoption. you believe allot like my dad does so no I dont think its rude.
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Posted by shawna201985
on 2008-01-28 14:02:47
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Granted this i a highly volatile subject, but in order to get someone to "hear" your point-of-view, I would strongly recommend some changes in your word choices...such as calling a woman a "murderer," may not get someone to engage in an active dialogue with you. It may just lead people to dscount you and your opinions as another one of the countless "fanatics, and lunatics" out there.
I do not believe that (today) an abortion is the right choice for me. But, I believe wholeheartedly in a woman's 'right to choose,"
The choice whether to carry to term, or to abort is not one, most women, and girls take lightly.
And yes, some women have some long standing grief-work they may have to work through, after choosing to terminate their pregnancies. But it is irresponsible on your part to make such a generalization. Many girls and women have thought it through ad have made the best possible decision for themselves. I applaud you for offering to take/adopt all of the uynwanted children-I suspect you must have a houe-full by now. So, do you stand outsid of clinics and offer to adopt all of the fetuses?
I imagine from your post-that you have not had an abortion procedure performed, so you can not honestly evaluate what a woman in that position has gone through or will go through.
As a Christian, I am convinced of the countless biblical text that reminds us against judging ohers. Afterall, he without sin...let them cast the first stone, or judge not lest ye be judged.
Take care and may God bless you in yur decision to adopt all of the unwanted children.
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Posted by truebluepa
on 2008-01-29 12:07:18
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trueblupa, I am not judging anyone and I am fully aware of that scripture. I am mearly stating my opinion which apparently hits nerve with you. So maybe you are one of the women I speak of. I am strong and willing to take responsibility for a child. No matter the reason I am carrying the child. I think of a child before myself obviously you dont. Thats sad! I do not look down on a woman who aborts a child. I would not treat her any different than I would another woman. I just think people can be selfish and only think of whats best for themselves. You should think of whats best for your child. Thats all I am saying so if you cant handle it I am sorry.
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Posted by shawna201985
on 2008-01-29 13:41:57
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Apparently, you did not understand my post. I can definitely handle it. I have marched on Washington for WOmens Rights for years and will continue to do so. I always welcome honest and Factual debates; I am the proud mother of three boys. I have fostered children and have taken in unwanted children. So, I definitely practice what I preach. All I was saying is your word choice IE "Murder", "murderer" will definitely put people off. That is all that I am saying. And I was commending you for offering to adopt/raise/provide for the unwanted fetuses of others. Kudos.
Peace be with you
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Posted by truebluepa
on 2008-01-31 14:03:28
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I myself have children, i have never had an abortion, but i have driven a friend to get one, this suited her at the time,the right choice for her, she has no regrets, she could not cope with another child at the time, i agree that women should have the option and the final decision is theirs to make, as the decision to stay pregnant with my children was my choice.
When you have more than three children people headcount them as you walk through town, which is bloody rude and annoying, nobody asks how many terminations you have had, its private, invisible and ones own business.
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Posted by justamother
on 2008-02-02 03:50:08
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