first off dont read this if you are younger then 18. it will be adult oriented, and it is meant for other adults. if you are underage and read this please ask your parents if you can. i am not responsible for others actions or children. thank you.

ok so first off my husband and i are highschool sweethearts. which means was have been together for a small while. we have been together for 4 and 1/2 years total. i know not all too long, but we all got to start somewhere right?

we have been trying to get "fit and tone" but it seems like i get tired of dont repetitive exercises. i have been in dance, gymnastics, and cheerleading my whole life. these are the things i like to do to exercise. i tried yoga, but it could hold my attention so long. i tried weights, pull ups, upside-down crunches, and that kind of stuff. i just get bored with it. i like to be able to switch things around, non repetitive.

and we have been trying to think of new things to try out for intimacy. we want to be able to help each other grow sexually, discover new sensations together, and enhance our sexual "peak" i guess you can say. we have been trying new tings and wanting to try different things together. we tell each other what we like and dont like when we try new things. we are going to the "best" adult store in the area to have a look around together sometime soon. i hope this weekend!! lol

so with these in knowledge now.. i have been thinking about getting a stripper pole and some dvd's to learn how to "use the pole" i think it would be very fun to do, and i do think my husband would like it.  he already likes it when i dance for him.. so why wouldnt he right? i have talked to him about it, and he seemed open about the idea.

and it would help me get in shape and tone more. it works your whole body is what i have read. how benefiting is that!?! looking good, build strength, and be fit, thats what we are trying to succeed by working out.

so ladies (*cough* or gents).. let me know your ideas. have you danced with a stripper pole? do you? are you going to start? what your thoughts, opinions, and ideas? have you done it at home for these reasons? got any suggestions? do you think pole dancing is easy or hard? would you like it if your wife did this? would you be against it or for it? what do you think about the idea in general?

leave what you would like to. just please dont take this out of proportion. it is not meant to get perverted answers. i want sincere and mature people to respond with intelligent answers and suggestions. if you cant do that then please dont even write anything. if you can please share!!! thank you ;)