i dont know y it is dat sometimes my best friends just acts so stupid..i just dont get it at all.if a guy disrespects you, or doesnt treat you right, then surely that is the wrong tiome for her to consciously make an effort to 'make friends' with him and then xpect me to b xcited about it..does it even make sense?? she has a boyfriend..she has loads of good friends..so y does she feel this pressiong need to make friends with THIS guy?? i know i should talk to her..but i just want to vent first and then approach it calmly..at the end of the day we all have freedom of choice..so if this she truly sees nothing wrong in doing this, the cool..maybe its up to me to rethink what kind of friend i have!